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Very Odd... Alright so I guess this whole online meeting thing is odd at its core, but it's not like we all wear our fetishes on our sleeves. I can't exactly walk up to some little hottie in the supermarket and tell her "Come with me now, I will keep you prisoner and use you for my pleasure". Well not unless I am looking to get locked up anyway.

So how else are regular people supposed to meet others with the same desires? I?ve only managed to find those I?ve had by knowing them first in real life and talking with them before they exposed themselves to me and shared their desires. There isn?t exactly a "Fets-R-Us" bar to hang out in. So, on line seemed like a good idea but I?m finding that everyone on here only wants to play a game in text or on the phone. I don't know how to do that. I don't even understand that! How am I to play a word game with you if I don't know you well enough to know what will press your buttons? ?Scene-ing? with a complete stranger is just VERY ODD to me!

If I know your fears, I can take you to the brink of the abyss and make you face them. If I know your past I can heal your pains by showing you that you can trust a man with his hand around your throat. If I know your loves I can stir your juices and heat your soul. If I know your hunger I can feed your passions and fill your needs.

But being able to accomplish anything truly stimulating starts with the words ?I KNOW?! How can we even begin to stir each other without knowing each other? I can?t imagine that, unless you are rehearsed or pretending or just inserting me into a performed fantasy that you did not need me to help you create in the first place. Am I just a body, a voice, and hand on your ass that can be replaced with someone? ANY one else? I can understand this if I were the sub in a scene but that is not even what I seek in my sub. I certainly can?t accept that treatment towards me. My subs have never been just a thing, a body that is nothing more than an interchangeable pussy, ass and throat that I can toss away and replace tomorrow because my heart is just not that callus.

I will not play a role for you to get to know you. I will not demand that you perform on a cam to see if you are worth my time. I will not and can not create a scene in your mind without first getting to know your mind. Otherwise it is just an acting role, a game a façade. If a relationship is to last it must at least begin with what is real, what you have learned about me and what I have learned about you.

Anyone can fuck and a good fuck can be practiced but a great fuck occurs in the mind. A mind which has not been properly opened can not be properly mind-fucked.

Scenes are for players, Lovers create their own scenes? together!

Okay so I don?t have a photo  on my profile? my choice. I have no problem with women who don't want to talk to someone who has no photo. I mean really you?d have no idea if I am who I say I am  or if I?m some snot nosed, little prepubescent, mama?s boy, cat killer kid playing with his marbles while he's looking at the photos on this site  . So if you don't want to talk and then swap photos later, that's fine, Really No Problem!

So then tell me why it is that when a girl has no photo she still thinks it is okay for her to write a guy and in the very first message, ask for my phone number?  Then when I say no, she declares me as some one who is not real or not serious.  Huh??

This has happened a few times now and I have to say I just don't get it.  Besides I am looking for a Daughter or a Sub or Slave not someone to tell ME what to do? not a good start if you?re contacting me ladies.

I have no intention of giving my personal information out to a complete stranger, someone who I haven?t corresponded with, gotten to know if there is anything in common between us, or even seen her   photo!

It's not that I fear you  I just don't need the headache of some psycho bitch  who thinks she is in love with me but who I think is a fucking whacko  bugging me all the time. I?ve have it happen before. This one lunatic  found out my work number and even my extension and called me there incessantly! I will not allow that to happen again!

One woman made the point that she can tell a lot by the voice  and I can fully understand that. I mean shit if I speak like Mickey fucking Mouse how Dominant would I come off to her or to anyone else?  LMAO!

But this is not some game to play over the phone, or only in the bedroom or even only when you can hear my voice. This is a full time mindset lifestyle for me. If you can't live it through anything more than my voice, then you want something part time and then YOU ARE THE ONE WHO IS NOT REAL!

These women don't even offer a photo, they don't want to know if we have anything in common or even ask me one spit worth of information about myself before they want to call? and on TOP of all that one of them lives 2000 miles from me! Sorry hun my dick isn?t big enough to satisfy someone 2000 miles away!

I don?t know what has happened on this site, but if a submissive woman thinks she has the right to contact a Dominant male and tell him what he is to do for her right from the start? I have to wonder what the fuck kind of supposedly dominant men are on this site! (Yes I used a lower case d on purpose!). Are you all wearing your little pink panties  before you come online or are you all just playing with your marbles  while looking at the photos on this site?

No wonder people have such horror stories  about the relationships started on this site? they must be based on lies and confusion over the postures of the specified  roles! And I understand now why so many of the really hot girls on this site are all lesbians!

 C?mon guys, you?ve given WAY TOO much power to these women. Isn?t it time for us to behave like MEN and take the power back?