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Redheels
I'm a tall dark and handsome (or so i've been told) chap who is seeking a real (as opposed to online/cyber) relationship with a genuine (and genuinely) dominant intelligent Woman. Someone with depth, warmth, passion and soul.... a serious side but who is also fun to be with! A relationship where the power exchange is natural and REAL as opposed to contrived and mere kink.

I'm looking for a genuine relationship, to be respected as a man and who I am, but also to happily know my place to my partner. I am strong and more than able to make decisions, but happy also to defer to Her. Ideally...... would love to find someone not only to love, but to utterly worship, and to have a healthy, fulfilling, Female-Led relationship! However, I am also open to a genuine TPE servitude dynamic where my role is far more formal and defined, and potentially live-in. I have my own home, career and means, regular vanilla interests, and would consider relocation for the right dynamic or for her to relocate to me if that is a preference.

Not interested in pro-domme sessions, tributes, online domination, fantasists, or bored housewives...... I am seeking someone "normal", sane, intelligent, with a dominant side to Her who is also intrigued by real-life D/s and power exchange for a proper relationship and a meeting of minds. Someone genuine who needs this just as much as I do.

I've had submissive desires for as long as I can remember, and have explored these since my early 20's. I've made some wonderful friends in the scene, and although I attend the odd munch and club night (was one of the original houseslaves at Club Pedestal when it started), I far prefer the one-to-one D/s dynamic. I've had romantic relationships in the past, and at the other end of the scale have also explored very formal purely servitude D/s also. I've reached a stage in my life where I know with absolute certainty that vanilla is not for me, and that I need power exchange to feel spiritually fulfilled.

Happy to make new friends, and perhaps more if the chemistry extends that far. Looking forward to hearing from you, and will reply to all intelligent correspondence.