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READ FIRST:Hello and welcome
I took the time to consider what I want and what I offer when I wrote this profile, so please take the time to read it.
The Short Profile:
There's quite a lot to read in my profile, and it can look intimidating, so here's a summary.
The information is there so that you have a clear idea about who I am, what I want, what I offer, what I don't want, what I expect.
I am a dominant male in my mid 30's. I am looking for a woman who has been struggling to supresss the submisive side of her personality for a long time. You have been on these sites before but have never taken the step to actually meet with a Dom although you may have posted or answered posts. I will give you the security to explore the submissive side of yourself safe in the knowledge that your safety will be uppermost in my mind.
I know that there is fear and uncertainty rising up in you at taking this step. But your submissive side is real and needs to find expression. You are the person that you are. Denisl does not and will not change that. You become a fuller person when you accept who you are.
We will get to know each other very very well. We will move at a pace that is right for you, fast enough to be exciting, slow enough to be right. Do not fight the uncertainty and the fear, submit to it. Now send me a message telling me something that you have never admitted to another living soul. The honesty of your responses will set you free.
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I'm just as comfortable helping beginners to the BDSM world find their way or talking about whatever comes to your mind, as I am able to talk on a variety of subjects and not just BDSM.
Chat with me, Email me, Meet me.....Then decide for yourself how Articulate, Assertive, Compatible, Conversational, Cat Loving, Deviant, Eloquent, Encouraging, Erotic, Fabulous, Filthy Minded, Flirty, Friendly, Fun, Geeky, Gentlemanly, Huggable, Intelligent, Kinky, Mentally Stimulating, Multi-Faceted, Naughty, Nurturing, Observant, Oral, Personable, Penetrating, Physically Stimulating, Sensual, Sexxy, Silly, Sociable, Straightforward, Strict, Tactile, Unique, Well Read, Well Travelled and Wonderful I am...
...Or am not.
Interests range from books to travel, photography to writing, cooking to being a nice person - so there's lots to talk about.
The main rule I abide by is that you don't waste my time - be straight with me, don't lie to me, do treat me with basic respect, be courteous, communicate with me.
There's no justification for crap behaviour.
If you've read this far, why not get in touch by sending me a message.
The Full, Good Stuff Profile...
I'm not into the "scene" [too much 'xyz' must be like this or like that for my taste - so very yawnsome], because being Dominant/Assertive is a state of mind, not a title, and I am...
...Darkly, deliciously, deviantly, dominant...
...Intelligent
...Courteous
...Well travelled
...Well read
...Strict
...Sexy
...Demanding
...Straightforward
...Plaintalking
...Creative
...Dirty talking
...Rewarding
...With a voracious appetite for all things erotic and kinky and deviant
...Able to converse on a wide array of topics - vanilla and kink
I believe in having sexy,uninhibited fun however you and I choose to have it.....But I will....
Test you
Treat you, as agreed
Have expectations
Not tolerate uncouth behaviour
Reward you
Help you learn about yourself
Nurture you and encourage you
Provide aftercare
Be the one you whisper your darkest desires to
Work with you to push boundaries
Expect you to be honest and upfront
Help you explore your fantasies and desires
Expect basic respect and courtesy.
Verbal jousting and word-play, mental stimulation and mind games, creative stimulation and prolonged foreplay are some of my strengths...
...Because the mind is the real playground for erotica, and I like to Play and fulfil your desires.
An expert oralist, I know when the delicate lapping of my tongue is a reward, when a firm tongue lashing is needed and when a whispered word will keep you under control.
Above all else, I'm here to have fun, to learn, to grow, to experiment, to have longterm relationships with lots of communication and interaction by email, chat, text, and face to face meetings for mutual pleasuring.
When we meet, there may be fucking and sucking......But there may be control, discipline and tasks instead.
My Role:
Although I wouldn't class myself as "living the lifestyle" or being a 24/7 Sir, I enjoy and appreciate erotica, deviancy and the Sir/Toy dynamic on a regular basis throughout the partnership.
USA based single or couples are encouraged to interact with me on regular basis (time permitting for both parties) by text and/or email.
I am committed to regular, entertaining communication and occasional flesh-on-flesh enjoyment - and I expect you to be, too.
Roles:
Although I consider myself dominant, My role & yours are fluid - Sir, Dominant, Master, Mentor, Lover, submissive, slave, toy, puppy, slut, little plaything....To name but a few.
My default title of Sir denotes accepting the broad roles we have adopted - I lead, you follow.
If you've read this far, why not get in touch by sending me a message.
If you can't adhere to the above...
...Do us both a favour, just go away and waste someone else's time.
My Ideal Person:
Your size, age, skin colour, background, race, job or kinks are not important to me...
...Kinkiness and erotica, translating that into words or actions, exploring the boundaries and communicating that with me are the traits I'm looking for.
Although single women are my forte, I am open to working with suitable couples
Whatever your level of experience, I'm sure we can entertain each other with conversations or emails about a variety of topics - or playing out our dark desires.
Whatever you've done in the past, however shocked others were, however taboo it was, however twisted or deviant it was, however relaxed your morals...
...Nothing will shock me - pain, humiliation, restraint, fisting, caging, ideas, public play, fantasies, oral, anal, role play.
Your Submission:
Your submission to me is a gift and I prize it highly, and do not accept it lightly or expect it to come quickly.
However, showing me basic respect is not about submission, but about being polite and courteous - the same as you would be to anyone.
I'm not looking for a passive doormat of a playmate, nor someone I have to struggle with every minute of the day to prove my dominance.
However, when working with me you have already defined the roles we should adopt and it is expected you [at least try to] honour those roles in word and deed - strengthening those roles over time, with communication and work on both sides.
To clarify the Dos -
* Do be straight with me.
* Do be courteous.
* Do talk to me when issues occur.
* Do negotiate with me about what's expected.
* Do accept that we're both human and can both make mistakes.
* Do realise that you are responsible for what's in your profile, which is all I know about you and is how I will deal with you.
* Do think, in advance, what you want and don't want.
* Do communicate.
To clarify the Don'ts -
Don't assume my definition of Sir / sub is the same as yours.
* Don't think that failing to show me basic courtesy and respect is "pushing boundaries"
* Don't think that my asking about your life or making sure you're ok or not barking orders at you every minute of the day is about domination or submission, it's just basic human-to-human interaction.
* Don't give me any less basic respect or courtesy than you expect from me.
* Don't make me 2nd guess you, and then complain/blame me when I don't read your mind.
* Don't say one thing, when you mean another.
* Don't think the rules apply to you alone. They are for both parties.
One final point I'm not one for exchanging meaningless emails back and forth. I prefer to talk over a phone and meet at the earliest opportunity. As you can appreciate a face to face discussion eradicates mis-understanding and the eyes can distinguish between there is compatibility or not.
If you have read this far then you were either curious or are intrigued enough to touch base with me.
Write to me... I don't bite, unless that is your fantasy / kink.
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