BelleMajia


BelleIsABadGir Female Switch, 37	bellebottom Female Submissive, 40, Melbourne	bellerophon Male Dominant, 62, Quebec

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	About BelleMajia I am looking for a long term relationship with a man who enjoys bdsm as a form of sexual foreplay. I am more turned on by the submissive role, but also have fun switching occasionally. I am not "a slave" looking for "a master". I am looking for a man I can love and respect enough to give up my power for short periods of time so that we can both enjoy intense erotic experiences within the context of a long term relationship. I am very open minded about relationships, I would consider a poly relationship. I am more likely to consider a poly relationship where the man does not have another relationship he considers primary and more important than all his other relationships. I'm not looking to be "second" to anyone, but I could be equal with another partner, depending on the whole dynamics of the situation. Every relationship has its own dynamics, I'm just saying I'm willing to negotiate a relationship that works for me and the man I a involved with, without having firm preconceived ideas about how it would work.

This is my more vanilla dating profile, so I'm looking for this, PLUS what's on my CM profile:

I'm serious, sexy, irreverant, opinionated, silly, open minded, realistic and reasonable. I'm independent, have a healthy sex drive and am generally easy to get along with. I'm honest and reliable. I'm not a doormat, but I'm not demanding either. No one is perfect, I won't expect you to be either.

I'd like to meet someone between the ages of 35 and 55 who is available for a long term serious relationship, but has enough sense to know that does not develop in a few weeks or months. Someone who would like to date and get to know one another and have fun along the way, but is neither committment phobic, nor wanting to rush into anything.

I'm looking for someone to do things with like going to the movies, visiting interesting places, taking short and long trips, going to listen to live music, doing karaoke, walking in the woods. All those are things I do alone, or with platonic friends or family, but they are much more fun with someone I can be playfully romantic with while we are out and then can be more intimate with at other times.

If you're in another city and not interested in moving to where I am, don't waste your time. I'm not interested in online infatuations.

If you're under 37, don't bother either. Really a ten year age gap is about all I'd be willing to consider.

If you aren't willng to read what I have to say...well, forget it, if that fits you aren't reading this anyway. If you have read this, you get five points in your favor.

If you send me a one liner, expect to get a one liner back, if you get a response at all. A "hello" might suffice for a first email, but if you aren't willing to carry on some kind of dialog and share who you are as a person, I'm really not going to become attracted to you.

THAT is the bottom line, I have been in relationships before, I know what attracts me and what works for me in the initial stages. I'm not falling for crumbs of your interest. If anything is to develop between us, there has to be a spark of chemistry and I can tell you from experience a few 20 word emails is not going to ignite anything.

I like playing submissive, but my dominant side is here, alive and well. To get to the submissive part, you'll have to get past the assertive part. Its like getting to the center of a Tootsie Pop.

I often feel that I don't nicely fit into any little labeled boxes.

I used to feel like I had to keep explaining myself to be understood. Now, I feel like if you want to understand me, you'll stick around and let me unfold to you.

And vice versa of course. I don't want anyone to try to explain themselves to me briefly.

We are all too unique for that to ever really work.

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