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bellasottamessa - Female Submissive, NYC New York | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About bellasottamessa

Hello. I am a young submissive woman, new to BDSM and looking to learn more about it. I researched books, blogs, websites, etc., but am now looking for personal interaction and firsthand experience.

The pic shown is not me (in case that wasn't obvious... just didn't want confusion there). for work purposes, i am unable to put a pic up. i am mostly Italian (with a few other things mixed up in there), if you couldn't tell by the name... i have brown hair, and deep brown eyes, i am a pretty girl (its awkward to say that, without trying to sound braggy)... just so W/we are all on the same page.... i am not obese, but have more curves to love, if you are looking for a porn-star type of body, that is not me. i am curvy and working on getting smaller... but it takes time :)


Looking for Someone who i can have an emotional connection to. i am not someone who can just jump into submission with out a lot trust and connection there first. i want to be with Someone who i can go out with, and enjoy real life with, outside of the bedroom. Someone i can joke around with, have a good time with, talk to and lean on... a mental and emotional connection.


i am very bright, and need Someone who will stimulate me mentally. i am very nice, but also have a quick wit and sweet sarcasm so i need Someone who can keep up and appreciates a good laugh. i am also pretty innocent and a bit shy about sexual things (slight eye roll, even talking about it is awkward) so i need Someone who will be patient, but will push me (a lot) at the same time.

i am not looking for a Daddy Dom... due to some previous issues in my life, that kind of thing is a limit for me. i am not looking for someone crazy sadistic... i need Someone with a good balance and who would respect my limitations... even while pushing me past my comfort zone.


i am also a bit sick... which won't change anytime soon, so i need Someone who will really go with the flow as that is concerned... patience is key there.


i am not specifically looking to get into a relationship. i am looking to put no expectations on anything and to just see how things take their place naturally. no pressure, no assumptions.



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