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Transgender Submissive, 40, canton, Ohio
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Female Submissive, 51
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Female Dominant, 33, New Orleans, Louisiana
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About bellasophia
i best describe myself as a bisexual, polyamorous, submissive.
1 i am disabled and willing to discuses that with serious potential matches not just nose individuals and will eventual have info about it here
2 I have a service dog who goes everywhere with me(he is a medium sized dog weighing no more then 50lbs and he is a bit over weight)
4. i am willing to relocate with in 210mi-350mi of my current residents
3 i will continue to add to this profile as i get time until it is finished so come back to learn more.
i am open to many options when it comes to my new Dom(s)(i uses that word for both male and female). I am also looking for someone to be my Dom in SL for me as a puppy girl
i was introduced to the lifestyle when i was 15, i had my first true Mistress when i was 17. i call her my first true Mistress because when introduced to BDSM it was by a man that is a disgrace to the the word master and can only be described as a Monster. For those that might look down on a Mistress's taking on an underage sub let me make it clear that She took me in to get me away from the abuse she had watched me inured but unable to convince me to leave at the hands of the Monster, and with strict stipulations.
Once Mistress took me in i learned that BDSM was not the hell i thought it was and she taught me much. She taught me about safety, limits and how to spot red flags. she also gave me the option to leave and go back to the vanilla world which i tried but found that even though how i found BDSM was not ideal that it was who i was.
After Mistress I found a poly-family i was apart of for many years but due to several factors we had to split up. which is how i came to be uncollared.
I have some very strict rules that i placed on myself to kep myself safe when online dating.
- i get to know them by speaking to them online threw messages here and then yahoo or other messenger , i never give out my address phone number or other personal information that could lead you to where i am. i do not want someone showing up on my door step
- after taking on messenger i set up a conversation on webcam, and at this point if feel comfortable with things will give out phone number for conservation.
- i will meet in a public location and i usually bring an escort with me just to be on the safe side
- if the meeting goes well then i will scheduled a time to meet at the home but not for a sleep over on my first visit for this i also bring an escorte
- if that goes well then and only then will i decide think about an alone over nite visit.
i have these rules in place so that i am safe, because psychos do not just come out and say hey im a psychos wanna play
If You are not withing my location then do not write me, if you can not read this profile do not write me, if you can not play by the above rules then do not write me.
is that clear enough?
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well 2013 wasn't much of a year for me, quite honestly the only good part of the year for me was the last 2 or so months when i started dating someone new, and even that has been tainted by the craziness of my life of the past year. However, even with the craziness that is my life that this relationship has started in it is very strong. I have fallen head over heals and pray to the goddess that it last. It even appears that not only have i found a new boyfriend but that he will become my Master as well.
i am still locking for friends, but until i see where this relationship goes that is all im currently looking for there may come a time when i will look for more, so i will keep this up-to-date
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*** The sender of this message has triggered our bulk content filter and has been prevented from sending additional messages at this time. We place these limits on our messaging system to prevent abuse and maintain the quality of our online community. You should not conclude that this user is fake or illegitimate merely because they have triggered the filter. ***
when i see this posted at the top of a message i instantly put it in the trash. them landing in the trash has nothing to do with me thinking they are fakes/scammers. but due to the fact that if you cant take the time to send me and individual and not just a mass message then i do not have the time to reply |
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it seems that people on here are illiterate or just don't give a damn to read what i have clearly stated in my profile. as i get more junk then anything making it so that i spend more time reading and deleting then i do replying to the few that actually deserve a response from me. so for those of you that for what ever reason may it be dumbness or whatever i will no longer be setting my message box to not even deliver the messages to me that fall outside of what i have clearly stated. that way i can focus on replying to those that actually deserve a response and not fishing threw the BS.
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i know that there are one or two people's messages that i have in my inbox that i see and think damnit why don't i have the time to reply to them in the way that i wish, with a reply that is long and says all the things i wish that i want. i know there are some that i have been meaning to write but thanks to my RL i haven't been able to. right now im working on helping my sister who is jail get in to a rehab and i only have 2weeks left to find a place that will take her. my sister's fucked up life has been consuming my life along with my own fucked up issues. so please if i have said that i am going to message you know that i haven't forgotten you or deleted your message they are in my in box, i just haven't had time to write the message that i wanted and maybe i should just send you a short message but that isn't realy my style but i think im going to so please be looking for a short i've not forgotten you message in the next week or so. i wish i could do it sooner but i can't promises anyone anything because it seems my life has an agenda of it's own and im not privy to it...
good luck and happy searching to everyone
--bella
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BACK ON THE HUNT, one bisexual-polyamours-submissive ready to find a real relationship
well, it seems that the couple i thought was a great match for me and had started to make plans with, went home and changed there mind. wish they would have changed there mind. after they drove 7hrs to meet me and we spent a very nice weekend together making plans of things to come, and it was honestly wonderful, they drove off and i have never heard from them again. so guess they got home and changed there mind about me. but i still have hope that i will find the right people for me. my only wish is they would have been polite enough to let me know they had changed their minds instead of not returning phone calls, text, YIM or anything else. back to reading e-mails and praying for someone who is looking for a relationship not just a good weekend vacation.
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it looks as though my dealing with e-mails from endless trolls may have finally payed off. just when i was starting to think that this website was nothing but a waste of my time i got a message from couple who turned out to be real, very real. Now this weekend i will be meeting them and if all goes well i will be off the market. i am excited and nervous that all goes well. as of right now i am happily under consideration of THEDOMCPL
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well I thought this was posted a near the first of the week but apparently it didn't save. My grand mother has been home for about 2 weeks as of today, they tried severl medications and were unseceull at getting her heart to behavie so they had to give her a shock. it worked and she got to come home. she is now back to bitching and nagging at me and i can say i have never been happier for someone to bitch and nag me. She is getting angry she can not due as much as she could do before but they are sending a home health person now who she says she no longer needs and that we all need to get back to our lives...
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my grandmother is in the hospital it is her heart, i am focused on her getting well right now so im not sure how long i will be away from internet but i will keep this updated the best i can to keep everyone informed. |
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I started this account with good intentions and plans. I had intended to fill it out fully, in-depth and keep a good journal but that has not been what has happened. when i started the account it seemed as though life had calmed a bit but i was wrong and it has been on thing after the next not just keeping me from being on here but off the computer as a whole. To those who have written me here and have not heard from me at all it does not mean i have trashed your message it means i have simply not had time to read/reply. To those who have gotten a message back then nothing i am sorry. i truly have not forgotten about this account and the people who have been super sweet to me but i haven't even had time to check my Facebook and let close friends know i am alive.
Thank You to everyone who has messaged me and be very nice, i hope you are doing well
I am sorry that life wont give me a break to attend to internet life; I will message people back as soon as i can(i make no promises on when it will be because every time i tell someone when i should be back on line something else hits me.)
blessed be
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