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BellaShiavo

Transgender Submissive, 40, canton, Ohio
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BellaShiavo - Male Dominant, L.A./San Diego California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About BellaShiavo

It's unfortunate that I have to say this but:

I will NOT send money to anyone on this site for ANY reason.


Do I have enough to relocate you? Why Yes....and then some. But if you need to be relocated, I have access to a plane. I will come and get you. Or if you prefer, you can be reimbursed for basic travel expenses if you have receipts and after you have been here for at least 30 days.


I would like to know how you see it possible to structure the time in your daily life as a domestic to be effective , while not letting yourself end up as a vanilla housewife. I am a positive dominant, meaning I enjoy it, but almost always as a practical means with purpose and not "just" for play alone, but as daily motivational structure for a submissive. I would also hear your thoughts about a girl that sees the purpose in her owner physically, verbally and mentally asserting ownership over her daily, especially with her dressed appropriately to enhance the revealing of her flesh out in public. I am totally comfortable with doing things that will attract attention to your position. Privately, I also enjoy the power of forcing orgasms while you are in bondage and I am open minded enough and secure enough that I dont mind others watching or even participating in forcing your orgasms to enhance your overall humiliation



BUT


I seek ONLY:
bi or straight adult females or straight couples up to about age 40. My age preferences are 18-39, but am usually fine with any age. Married is ok and in certain cases even preferred if it does not interfere, but I am selective. Most taboo or cuckold kinks, either short or long term are welcome. However, I am not interested in any physical or sexual contact between men. I know it sounds closed minded to those of you whose husbands have bisexual desires, but it's just my preference to go with what I think is the most natural interaction.


From now on, with couples, I will only communicate with the wife/fiancee/girlfriend of a couple until we have enough trust built to communicate by phone. I have good reason.


RECENT (03/2014) NEGATIVE RESULTS from my regular STD testing.


LIMITS:
I think that any girl or woman should focus her attention on the men around her and never be too busy or preoccupied by their desire for other women.

Secondly, I think that no person who owns another person should do so lightly. I believe that ownership should be a responsibility, like owning anything else, even though you have the ability to destroy what you own, you should build it up instead in order to make it better and therefore be something you can be proud of owning. That means you dont cut it, tear it, pierce it or do anything else that damages the beauty of the skin or the mind. In turn that property should be gracious and attempt to be quiet, peaceful and graceful; to dress properly with what is provided and make every effort to be attractive to men, not for other women. In short, I don't like to damage my property.


Bathroom games: I don't get any sexual satisfaction from bathroom games. I do love to have my ass rimmed, but it's always clean.


Bestiality: I have subjected a couple of submissives that wanted the experience in this manner, but honestly, unless you are into the degradation of being a pet yourself, and/or being subjected or forced to be sexual abused by an animal, it's just ok and not something that really turns me on.

Disclaimer: Don't expect me to be in good shape, slim and handsome. I'm not. I suppose by feminist standards, you could call me a BBM, HaHa. I am financially independent, but far from rich, so don't expect that either. I do however have a healthy balance of self respect and importance and I command respect from those I know, but I am far from being narcissistic. In a nutshell, a quality human being.
If your old profile name was "youngseekingold", I believe your rubber ducky is still in my lost & found department. Please inquire within.

If you are reading this:

 

What irks you?  (No snippy comments, girls, you define who you are by what you say)
Who are you?  Sub, slave?  How do you define yourself?
I have one slave, 40.  I have had her for four years.  She is a complete slave, but I treat her decently and with respect, even though I am not required to.  She does anything I say.  She works outside the home.  I developed her career to make the most money she can for me, but thats not because I needed or wanted her income....its because I think a slave should be developed to her full potential.

Wow, there are a lot of fake profiles here.  People who make fake profiles should have their ip address permanently banned!  And if I can pick them out so easily, then the staff here at Collarme should be able to as well.

If you think yourself 'elegant' you have totally missed its true meaning.

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Written by Jade

 

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.


I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size


But when I start to tell them,


They think I'm telling lies.


I say,


It's in the reach of my arms


The span of my hips,


The stride of my step,


The curl of my lips.


I'm a woman

I walk into a room


Just as cool as you please,


And to a man,


The fellows stand or


Fall down on their knees.


Then they swarm around me,


A hive of honey bees.


I say,


It's the fire in my eyes,


And the flash of my teeth,


The swing in my waist,


And the joy in my feet.


I'm a woman

Men themselves have wondered


What they see in me.


They try so much


But they can't touch


My inner mystery.


When I try to show them


They say they still can't see.


I say,


It's in the arch of my back,


The sun of my smile,


The ride of my breasts,


The grace of my style.


I'm a woman

Now you understand


Just why my head's not bowed.


I don't shout or jump about


Or have to talk real loud.


When you see me passing


It ought to make you proud.


I say,


It's in the click of my heels,


The bend of my hair,

 

the palm of my hand,


The need of my care,
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Cause I'm a woman

 

Adapted from Maya Angelou

I need a maid.  I would prefer her to be non-Caucasian, non-Black, perhaps someone of any Asian or Hispanic descent.  If you are not a citizen of the USA, but are very good at what you do, write me anyway.  We might be able to work something out.

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