so I learned you can teach old dogs new tricks. I was able to teach my husband how to be a man again, a master. his ex wife did him in by saying she was gay after 13yrs of marriage. He was vanilla and broken( trying to give me the riens).  but as I said things are changing. I knew there was a master in there somewheres. I am so glad the 8+ yrs together wasn't a waste of my time. I hope everyone has a good week and great weekend.