Hello, my name is Bekah and I'm very new to this whole bdsm thing. To be honest it wasn't too long ago that I use to self harm for various reasons, but only very recently have I experimented with others giving me pain and I have found it to make me very....happy and horny. Right now I'm quite restrictive in what I'm comfortable with, but what I know I'm looking for is someone who will kinda introduce me to some things, and command me to do certain things. Things I might be interested in:

Spanking
Clothes pins and clamps
Slapping
Sensory pain(to something hot and spicey for example)

Anything I use is a household item, not a a bought sex toy. I view pain as showing affection, and when I'm hurt by someone it makes me feel worthy, and attractive.

I got interested in S&M for the first time when watching the movie "The Secretary".

If you are willing to take things slow, and are patient with someone who doesn't know their limits yet, drop me a message. I'm not interested in people over the age of 45, sorry white hair and wrinkles is a turn off.