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Female Submissive, 18, GTA, ON
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About BeginUpstairs
Interested in developing a progressive relationship with a female sub.
Have experience, both RL and OL. I am HWP and considered handsome by most (a relative aspect to be sure).
Unlike many, the B, S, & M aspects do not loom as large on my agenda. I am here for the D/s and the PE. For me, the dimension of the mind is the primary arena for play.
I don't mind providing a little "tie me up" and the occasional spanking is always fun, but - as my profile name indicates - it is the psychological aspect that provides the true fire for this Dom. If your goal is to seek an expert in administering pain and the associated techniques & tools, you would be more successful with a different person.
Physical attributes are of course considered, but personality, attitude, and intellect are key. I will challenge you.
In case it isn't apparent, dialogue and review (from both sides) is the first and most necessary step. This is a *process*, and it begins with a conversation. "Experiences" must necessarily be tailored to the people involved.
As others have written - domination and submission are gifts that are freely given, not forced or demanded/expected.
Submission brings freedom and holds power. It is my hope that people here understand that concept.
Safe, sane
and consensual - all parties involved should discuss and agree on set
limits and rules.NOTE: I am married, and my wife is fully aware of this activity. Yes, if we begin a relationship, you will be able to meet her and verify all of this. (We are in the swinging lifestyle as a couple, but D/s play is not her proclivity.) Apparently for many, this level of sincerity is a stumbling block.
As a side comment, it has been mildly amusing to me how many misconceptions and misunderstandings there are about swinging from those in the BDSM community ... since I am aware that members of this site often struggle with similar assumptions from others. By all means, if you have questions or are concerned about that aspect, please ask!
I am seeking a friend and play-partner for D/s, and am open to a long-term relationship in that context.
Feel free to write and inquire ...
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