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Female Dominant, 38, Independence, Missouri
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Male Dominant, 48, Warren, Michigan
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Male Dominant, 41
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About BegForMe
I have been a dom for a little over a decade now, and I love the power exchange and psychological aspects of a D/s relationship.I do enjoy pain, though unless you're a masochist, it's not necessary for me. I'm more interested in the transition between pain and pleasure; what happens when your pain is relieved by intense arousal, and when your arousal is snuffed out by sharp pain.
I'm not equipment heavy, mostly because I don't have a dungeon or space dedicated to BDSM equipment. If that is your thing, I am certainly not opposed to it, but understand that I don't have very much experience there at all. I am good with rope, and I certainly love it, though I have no training in suspension bondage.
Just as a note, I don't sit in my role as a Dom 24/7. If you're looking for every single contact to be a D/s contact, then expect our relationship to be merely a sexual thing, nothing more, which I am very ok with and I do enjoy. If you do wish to have a long-term relationship with me, then we have to connect on a friend level as well.
Back to the BDSM world, though.
When you send me an email: 1) Introduce yourself clearly, ie, your name. I don't care if it's a fake name, but give me something to call you. 2) Send a picture. If you are uncomfortable sending your face first, I understand that, but do understand that I will see one if we are to meet. 3) Tell me your past experience and tell me how you can serve me. 4) Understand that we will speak on the phone before we meet. 5) Take the time to check your spelling. I have no desire in spending time with an uneducated sub.
What you should be: 1) Female. 2) Between the ages 0f 18 and 35. 3) Slim/Skinny/Petite/In shape. 4) 100% Clean. 5) In the Los Angeles area or willing to travel to me. I will not travel to you. 6) Tattoos and piercings are a plus. I do enjoy them, though I have none myself.
What you should not be: 1) A whiner. That pisses me off. 2) Someone who tries to top from the bottom. I will either dismiss you or I will make you suffer. 3) Out of shape, zaftig, BBW, etc. While there is nothing wrong with these body types. it is not my preference. 4) Rude in any way.
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So, I've been browsing a lot of the "domme" profiles here. What a disaster. What has this site become? I understand perfectly the professional Dommes and even those who include some sort of financial play into their power exchange, but frankly, I'm disgusted by all these young girls pretending to be dommes when all they want are "cash chows" and "piggies" and "ATMs." You know nothing of BDSM. You know nothing of the intense power exchange between Dominant/Master/Mistress and submissive/slave. Posing as a "domme" is not synonymous with laziness and acting like a spoiled and greedy child. Stop cluttering up this site and leave it clean for people who actually enjoy the lifestyle and the play for what it is. |
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