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Female Submissive, 60, London
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Female Dominant, 32, Chicago, Illinois
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Female Submissive, 47, East Anglia
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About BeckyisaSissy
I am a wimpy, wussy, mostly impotent male who wants to become a woman. At least, visually, and maybe live as a woman someday. I'm willing to trade services (as a household domestic or handyman) or pay reasonable fees for this. ************************************************** I am only interested in contact with a pro or amateur DOMME willing to take on an interesting PROJECT. I am looking for an ongoing, D/s based, male-to-female TRANSFORMATION session arrangement with sessions every 4-8 weeks, possibly for years. My personal goal is to have an ongoing, active private life as a TRANSVESTITE sometime after sessions start. That is what I seek You for. I am NOT looking for sex, although I am looking to be totally immersed in my new, chosen gender no matter what way you intend to use me. I see this as a mutually beneficial arrangement for a progressive-thinking Domme willing and able to transform a wussy male into a 'woman'. And, frankly, this can be a lot of fun for both of us and very useful to you if you're open minded and recognize the possibilities.
I seek a domme with a strong personality who understands the psychology of a M2F submissive. If you have a history of physically or mentally emasculating males, even better. My hope is to find a domme who will take an active role in my overall female presentation (which builds my confidence) in exchange for $$$ or household domestic duties.
I have done some crossdressing, sometimes seriously. My pic shows that I have potential even though I know I could never truly pass. This is the woman you would start with. Sure, I can possibly do this alone but my type personality responds far better to a carrot-and-stick approach... the carrot for good behavior and the stick if I fail to live up to expectations.
Remember, I am a PROJECT, not a one or two session event. I assure you that I am 1000% serious. I am NOT looking for sexual thrills for myself... the inherent eroticism is reward enough for me. I have a general idea of what I think would work best to reach my goal but I am always open to your ideas. The type of woman I would become (girl-next-door, prancing sissy, domestic help, any/all of these, etc) would be entirely up to you (that's right, read between the lines... :)
Do you have need of a domestic servant, or $$$? Would you be willing to help me become a woman?
I humbly apologize for being so forward in my description... it's the ex-businessman in me that likes to have a clear understanding in advance of anything I might partake of. I tend toward submissiveness when I'm comfortable with someone so you can be assured that if we make a connection that YOU will be the one in charge. I have no problem with YOU determining my future as a TV. I encourage questions from potential Dommes.
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I think it best if I explain why I'm looking for a domme and not a dom.
I've tried to make it clear in my profile that I'm serious about becoming a somewhat passable transvestite. The few male doms who have contacted me have all wanted to start my transformation with direct sexual contact and sissy behavior. While that may be in my long term future it is strictly dependent on how good I look and my confidence in my femininity when appearing in public. Not one... ever... has mentioned anything about perfecting my looks, developing a public 'style' that suits my personality, or offered me a chance to have a life outside the bedroom. Frankly, they all wanted extended, self-gratifying session play rather than taking on the project of building a decent transvestite from a humble crossdresser. One-dimensional thinking, not what I need.
The dommes and few vanilla women I've had contact with have all been highly positive and encouraging of me to further my femininity, and offered up real-life tips to help me when I eventually take the "passability" test. They ask questions about my life and lifestyle and what I hope to gain from this. I feel like they see me as a real person with thoughts and feelings, even if I am different from most males. In short, women are more attuned to what I am and what I want than any man I have had contact with. Besides, they are real women who understand how the little things about my appearance contribute to my overall presentation. And I'm realistic enough to know I need all the help I can get and humble enough to accept their constructive criticism.
I'm sticking with my search for a DOMME. |
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