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Update: i am permanently collared, since about a year ago. The following was written before and will be edited more at some point later.
i dabbled around the edges of this lifestyle for quite a few years, and have been seriously involved for about three years. i got involved first because i could not imagine better foreplay than a good spanking, but then progressed to offering total submission to a Dom and then a Master. i found great fulfillment in that, but i think i am a better sub than slave. i love adventurous sex (especially anal), i love hard play (yes please Sir, whip me harder, thank You Sir!), but i love even more learning and growing in this lifestyle.
i am very intelligent and i have a very lively sense of humour (which sometimes gets me into trouble). i read, i love music (blues and folk especially), i have a cat, i have a responsible professional career, and i am very independent.
i do not always find submission easy, but i seek a calm, wise, sensible Dom who wants to be in charge but not to smother, someone who wants to nurture my growth as a person, who can control with a look or a word rather than shouting, who is prepared to be firm when needed but will also appreciate my lively spirit.
Phsyically, i am short and plump, and not an athletic type. Personality-wise, i am usually very honest (but not rudely so), kind and caring and empathetic.
i love percussion play most and don't do things that leave permanent marks. i use a safe word (though with time and trust You would hear it less and less), and have only begun experimenting with light bondage (which requires building of trust first). i am willing to explore and have my limits expanded by the right Dom or Master.
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