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Male Submissive, 40, Stonington, Connecticut
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Male Submissive, 30, Great Falls, Montana
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Female Submissive, 52
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About Beatmehrdr
(I never know how to write these things, so bear with me)
Male Sub/Slave seeks Femme Domme for play, maybe casual relationship outside of play as well. I enjoy most types of play and have been called a fairly heavy player(though, to be honest, I probably don't have the limits I had a few years ago, but given time and repeated beatings, that could change ;)
I am in better physical shape than the numbers would suggest. I work out at the gym daily, and bike ride up to 60 miles/wk.
For Dommes who like their subs useful, I'm good at handyman type stuff, light carpentry, plumbing and electrical work, and am a hard core computer techie as well, and have built some dungeon furniture, for those who might want that.
Outside the dungeon, I like boating bike riding, and tinkering around with stuff in general. |
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I haven't updated here in a while. I've been dealing with some serious personal/health issues for the past 5 - 6 months, so I haven't really been looking much, and haven't responded much.?? Anyway, an old thread from way back when came back to life, and I just had to respond to it, since I did start it.? I figure I might resurrect my online self here soon.? My medical issues have settled themselves for the most part, so maybe I'll participate a bit more.? We'll see.
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Well, the CM moderators didn't like my pic of Rhode Island Red(the cock in question). Anyway, if I've contacted you, I've probably already sent a picture if I'm serious and interested in hearing back from you. If I didn't send a picture(a vanilla one), I probably wasn't looking when I sent the email, and had no ulterior motives when I sent it. (IOW, if I said "I like your photo", that means I liked your photo, and nothing more) |
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Well, I just posted a picture of my cock.? Er, a cock.? If you are looking for pictures of my "anatomy", well, that ain't going to happen.? However, if you want to see my cock, you are going to have to settle for Mr. Rhode Island Red until we meet R/T.
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OK, now this is going to be a weird entry.? A Domme, whom I had not met and didn't know from Adam, on her second email to me, demanded a picture of my manhood.
Ugh.? I don't do that.? If a Domme wants to see my "anatomy", it is going to be after we meet in a vanilla venue first and know that there is a spark between us.?? This might sound strange coming from a guy, but honestly, I want to meet the woman behind the whip before I meet the whip.
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Boy is my butt sore!? Usually, that would be a cause for celebration, because I got a well-deserved thrashing.? However, it is because I rode the bike 50 miles today.? Not bad for a fat guy, huh?
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I'm going to put the bike into the shop either tomorrow or friday.? If all goes well, hopefully, I'll be back up to 70 miles/week by this time next week--and by the end of april, I'll get in at least one, and possibly multiple 50 mile rides in hill country.?? So, yes, I am athletic, even if I don't look it.
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Well, I've been examining the LTR thing again.? The answer to a Domme who asks me if I want a long term relationship is the following, absolute answer:
I Don't Know.?
I want to get to know you, whoever you might be.? I'd like to take things a day at a time, and I'd like to see where things might lead.? In some ways, I'm very much a babe in the woods when it comes to relationships.? I like making Dominant women happy.? But I don't know if I'm ready to look for a life partner yet.??? One day at a time, I guess.
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I realized that when I put down that I'm not interested in a LTR, it sounds like I'm looking for a one night stand. That's not really the case(not that I'd turn down the chance LOL). It is more like I want to make a connection, but I'm not sure I'm ready to commit to a collar or similar real, deep, heavy, leading-to-marriage type situation.
I want to connect with a Domme on a personal level, but I'm afraid that I might not be ready for that heavy a level of commitment. If that sounds a bit confused, I guess it is because I am. I want to enjoy the quiet moments, like massaging Her feet, talking, enjoying a fire as much as the beat me make me cry like a little girl moments. I want Her to want me as a person, and not just a sub.
But, frankly, I'm a bit afraid of commitment, so yes, I'm a bit confused in that regard. I guess that means I want to take things one day at a time and see how it goes.
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