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Friends:
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I would describe myself as fairly easy going and open minded. I enjoy reading, going out to eat, shooting pool, and movies, but regardless of the activity I will find a way to have fun. Im a TPE sub with 10+ years of experience. My main focus is being a pleaser sub who gets his satisfaction from making his One happy. While I do have things I enjoy, such as strap on play, hand spankings, some s of CBT and tease deny, my true pleasure comes from my Mistress happiness. To this end, I serve her in whatever fashion She chooses, be it sexual or things such as cooking dinner, washing her car, cleaning or giving Her massages. Unlike many who call themselves sub, I actually understand that my wants and desires are secondary and am willing to overlook my needs to satisfy Hers. I know that being submissive doesnt mean handing a Dominant a long list of desires and limits nor does it start or end at any certain time. Expecting nothing done for or to me, I accept if she wishes to give and always maintain an attitude of service to her. To me, submission is serving however required by HER, not dictated by me. I do not play at being submissive. It is who I am, both in my heart and in daily HOME life. (I do not submit to any but Mistress. The most I offer any other, be they Dominant, submissive or vanilla, is common courtesy.)I exist to serve Her and am only happy when she is happy and content.

Im known as Ms. Beachs toyboy and am collared by and married to my Domme, (BeachMystress on here.) We are in a happy, committed, monogamous relationship that closely resembles a traditional 1950s marriage, other than the fact that I take the traditional duties of the wife. Neither she nor I seeks another partner. Please notice and respect the friends only is selected under seeking. While I am actively seeking friendship with anyone, that is ALL that is sought.The message boards are the ideal place for exchanging ideas with others in the lifestyle and they are my main reason for being part of this site. I encourage you to view them and participate.

Im active in the local scene and would be happy to help any sub who is trying to find munches or events. Im also happy to refer any Domme who wish to know about them to my Mistress. You could also Google SoCalSMEvents for the Yahoo group that has the events for all of Southern California.Note from toyboys Mistress- As weve found that drunken women cant manage to read the journal along with the profile, Ill add this to the body. If someone viewed you or wrote to you, it was most likely BeachMystress, toys WifeOwner. (She profile surfs using his profile whenbored, because using her own gets her trolled.)


12/29/2010 10:12:18 AM

Looking forward to Mercnbeth's New Years Eve Masquerade-Play Party-Slumber party. I can't wait to ring in the new year with Mistress using me in their dungeon!

9/22/2010 2:18:05 AM

Posted by Beach Mystress, Beach's toyboy's Wife/Owner/Mistress -


It really amazes me what passes for "dominant" on this site. I know it is a self taken title these days, but.. it does boggle the mind. This is a recent exchange sent to my husband. I tell ya guys. I do feel bad for you when trying to decide if someone on the site is as they represent or just talks a great line on the profile. Of course I've removed the person's ID, as CM frowns on the use of such.

 
  self styled domme "princess"  on 9/14/10 at 8:22 PM:
 
  Wonderful profile...congratulations on knowing the definition of slave and knowing who/what you are!  KUDOS pretty boy.


self styled domme "princess" on 9/15/10 at 4:12 PM:
Wow, all you had to do was say thank you.  Seems rude.

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Of course, toy brought this to me, as he is not permitted to accept criticism or corrections from others. My reply was:

  beachstoyboy on 9/20/10 at 6:20 AM:
 
 

Due to your second note, my husband asked me to deal with your messages. Sadily, the unpleasant nature of your second, unwarranted mail negated the compliment of the first.


Do not assume that people are online or that they have read your message. You immediately assumed a snub with no knowledge of if or when he is allowed to use the computer or what his duties or protocols entail. And as my husband is only allowed on the computer for an hour on Sunday nights, there is no way he would have been able to respond to you before you sent your petulant second e-mail. Getting a timely response is not a right.


I am sorry, but considering the potential for drama that I'm sensing in your second communiqué, toy is disallowed contact with you.

Be well,
Beach Mystress
Wife/Owner/Mistress of Beach's toyboy


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I pressed the block button and put it out of my mind until she looked up toy's profile from before we married and sent this

self styled domme "princess" on 9/21/10 at 9:49 PM:

Fuck you and your RUDE, Flabby, out of shape cunt of a 'mistress'.
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Such the vocabulary! LoL Also, the naked photos of the woman look like she weighs at least thirty, if not more, pounds more than me


My reply:
I would like to know what Lifestyle events or Dungeons you attend as I'd love to discuss your conduct face to face.


By the way, your practice of stealing photos and placing them on your profile is reprehensible, especially after claiming they're all of you. Six of your photos belong to others. How can you expect to be taken seriously if the "toys" and faces you display are not even yours! Also, in my opinion you're a coward as you've not bothered to post your face.


For the record, you're larger than me, which means that your pathetic attempt to hurt me via calling me flabby and out of shape made us laugh. Glass houses and rocks, my dear. Fuck you and cunt? I guess you were never told that resorting to such indicates a lack of a decent vocabulary. Education is a wonderful thing. It's sad when you see someone flaunt a lack of it.


Maturity is not over rated, though it seems to be out of your realm. Once you grow up mentally and are stable enough to control yourself, including financially, perhaps you'll find a man as submissive and wonderful as I have. In the mean time, quit targeting men, especially owned ones, in wealthy areas. It's tacky- especially after admitting in your profile that you're looking to be a sponge. I lived beach front and didn't work BEFORE I met and married my sub. I understand you may not be worthy of such, but when you're so blatant about your shortcomings you're best to view ugly, desperate males inland.


I look forward to discussing your childish temper tantrums in person.
Beach Mystress

12/20/2009 9:54:54 AM
All of my photos either have me in them or were taken by me. They are copyright and not available for use by others!
12/2/2009 7:08:10 AM
It amuses me how many "domme" have "READ THE PROFILE BEFORE CONTACTING!" first thing in their profile and yet do not bother to read the male's profile before sending him mail. 
9/29/2009 4:04:35 PM
It's amazing how many men don't seem to be able to read and yet still are able to write & troll my Wife against her stated wishes. And some of the lame pick up lines they use wouldn't even work in a bar at last call! How pathetic does a male have to get before he embarrasses himself this way?

It would never occur to me to disregard a Dominant's stated wish. I guess that's why I *have* a Dominant and they don't.
9/18/2009 12:10:07 PM
 Mistress just added several hundred new photos of our BDSM play times (almost 2000 photos now!) to the Flickr account. (Search for MsBeach there. And yes, Flickr is free.) Feel free to have a look!

Make sure your account is set to view "restricted" photos or you'll just see our "safe" ones. To get to that setting, go to the arrow next to You (top menu on Flickr) and click it; select the "Your Account" entry down near the bottom. Once at your account page, click the "Privacy & Permissions" header. Scroll all the way down to "Content filters" and edit "Search settings" YOU MUST SELECT "SafeSearch off" OR YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO SEE ANY OF THE PLAY PHOTOS. The default is to have safe search on, which stops any photos rated R, X or XXX from showing.
9/3/2009 12:31:34 AM
Mistress has added over 1000 images of play with me (and ex subs) to her Flickr albums. Search Flickr for MsBeach to find them.
8/11/2009 4:21:17 AM
24/7 TPE BDSM does exist. Just because YOU are unable to give that level of commitment to the lifestyle doesn't mean that others can't.
6/12/2009 5:56:21 PM
If someone viewed you or wrote to you, it was most likely BeachMystress, toy's Wife/Owner. (She profile surfs using his profile when she is bored.)
6/8/2009 1:40:23 PM
Four years goes by quickly!
3/19/2009 1:11:54 PM
WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.
7/18/2008 1:51:49 AM
If you'd like help finding a local munch, you're welcome to write. Or you could google "SoCalSMEvents" and find the events list for all of Southern California.
6/16/2008 11:33:35 AM

South Bay munch; Torrance CA

- ask for the co-ed softball team.
 
NO FETISH ATTIRE

-Thursday 06-26-08, 7 PM, Mimi's Cafe at 5343 Crenshaw Blvd., Torrance

*July 2008
-Tuesday, 07-08-08, 7 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
-Thursday 07-24-08, 7 PM, Mimi's Cafe at 5343 Crenshaw Blvd., Torrance

6/10/2008 4:43:53 PM
Due to the Laker's game, tonights munch will be at  Texas Loosey's in Torrance, located at: 22252 Palos Verdes Blvd. (1 block south of Sepulveda), Torrance, CA, 90505 rather than at the normal venue of National Sports Grill and Bar. All other details are the same!
2/25/2008 1:00:06 PM
Starting in April, the South Bay Munch will have a new venue for the second munch of the month. It will be the fourth Thursday, 7 PM at Mimi's Cafe at 5343 Crenshaw Blvd., Torrance CA.

== At any of the munches, ask for the Co-ed softball team. This is a pansexual munch. Everyone is welcome and we do try to make newcomers comfortable

== Please feel free to write and ask if you'd like the website for the munch group. Hope to see you there! ==

South Bay Munch Dates - Torrance CA
*May 2008
  • -Tuesday, 05-13-08, 7 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
  • -Thursday 05-22-08, 7 PM, Mimi's Cafe at 5343 Crenshaw Blvd., Torrance
*June 2008
  • -Tuesday, 06-10-08, 7 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
  • -Thursday 06-26-08, 7 PM, Mimi's Cafe at 5343 Crenshaw Blvd., Torrance
*July 2008
  • -Tuesday, 07-08-08, 7 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
  • -Thursday 07-24-08, 7 PM, Mimi's Cafe at 5343 Crenshaw Blvd., Torrance
*August 2008
  • -Tuesday, 08-12-08, 7 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
  • -Thursday 08-28-08, 7 PM, Mimi's Cafe at 5343 Crenshaw Blvd., Torrance
12/10/2007 8:32:04 AM
 South Bay Munch Dates - Torrance CA                            

December 2007  
-Tuesday, 12-11-07, 7 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
-Thursday NONE IN DEC, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance

January 2008
-Tuesday, 01-08-08, 7 PM, National  Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
-Thursday 01-24-08, 7 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance


Feb 2008
-Tuesday, 02-12-08, 7 PM, National  Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
-Thursday 02-21-08, 7 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance

==At any of these, ask for the Co-ed softball team. This is a pansexual munch. Everyone is welcome and we do try to make newcomers comfortable
== Please feel free to write and ask if you'd like the website for the munch group. Hope to see you there!
8/12/2007 10:38:05 AM

South Bay Munch Dates - Torrance CA                            
 
August
-Tuesday, 08-14-07, 7 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
-Thursday 08-23-07, 7 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance

Sept

-Tuesday, 09-11-07, 7 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
-Thursday 09-27-07, 7 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance

Oct
-Tuesday, 10-09-07, 7 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
-Thursday 10-25-07, 7 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance

Nov
-Tuesday, 11-13-07, 7 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance

==At any of these, ask for the Co-ed softball team. This is a pansexual munch. Everyone is welcome and we do try to make newcomers comfortable ==

8/9/2007 10:07:32 AM
South Bay Munch Dates:

August:
   -Tuesday, 08/14/07, 7:00 PM,
National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
   -Thursday 08/23/07, 7:00 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance

Sept
   -Tuesday, 09/11/07, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
   -Thursday 09/27/07, 7:00 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance

~~~ At any of these, ask for the Co-ed softball team. This is a pansexual munch.
Everyone is welcome and we do try to make newcomers comfortable ~~
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/south_bay_munch/
6/3/2007 3:01:50 PM
South Bay Munch dates, Torrance CA:

June
-Tuesday, 06/12/07, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
-Thursday 06/28/07, 7:00 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance

July

-Tuesday, 07/10/07, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
-Thursday 07/26/07, 7:00 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance


At any of these, ask for the Co-ed softball team. This is a friendly pansexual munch. Everyone is welcomed. We do our best to make newbies comfortable. Hope to see you there!
4/18/2007 8:19:31 AM
South Bay Munch~~  
Torrance CA ~~  

April ~
-Thursday 04/26/07, 7:00 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance CA
~~
May ~
-Tuesday, 05/08/07, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance CA ~~ 
-Thursday 05/24/07, 7:00 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance CA
~~~ 
At any of these, ask for the Co-ed softball team. This is a pansexual munch. Everyone is welcome and we do try to make newcomers comfortable ~~ http://groups.yahoo.com/group/south_bay_munch/
3/22/2007 11:59:53 PM
South Bay Munch Schedule April 2007

-Tuesday, 04/10/07, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance

-Thursday 04/26/07, 7:00 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance

 At either of these, ask for the Co-ed softball team. This is a pansexual munch. Everyone is welcome and we do try to make newcomers comfortable
2/23/2007 3:29:27 AM
South Bay Munch Schedule  March 2007

*Tuesday, 03/13/07, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance

*Thursday 03/22/07, 7:00 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance

At either of these, ask for the Co-ed softball team. This is a pansexual munch. Everyone is welcome and we do try to make newcomers comfortable.
2/6/2007 8:36:43 AM
Happy Valentines

South Bay Munch Schedule

Feb 2007

*Tuesday, 02/13/07, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
*Thursday 02/22/07, 7:00 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance

At either of these, ask for the Co-ed softball team. This is a pansexual munch. Everyone is welcome and we do try to make newcomers comfortable.


11/1/2006 2:41:24 AM
 South Bay Munch Schedule

  
November 2006
*Tuesday, 11/14/06, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance

December 2006
*Tuesday, 12/12/06, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance

At either of these, ask for the Co-ed softball team. This is a pansexual munch. Everyone is welcome and we do try to make newcomers comfortable.
10/8/2006 2:36:37 AM
South Bay Munch Schedule
 October 2006

*Tuesday, 10/10/06, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
*Thursday 10/26/06, 7:00 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance

At either of these, ask for the co-ed softball team. Feel free to ask me for more details
8/14/2006 2:35:47 AM
 South Bay Munch Schedule
September 2006

*Tuesday, 09/12/06, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance
*Thursday 09/28/06, 7:00 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,Torrance

At either of these, ask for the co-ed softball team. Feel free to ask me for more details
6/24/2006 2:49:45 AM

South Bay Munch Schedule
July 2006

*Tuesday, 07/11/06, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance

*Thursday 07/27/06, 7:00 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,
Torrance

At either of these, ask for the co-ed softball team. Feel free to ask me for more details
5/25/2006 11:47:17 PM
 South Bay Munch Schedule
June 2006  

*Tuesday, 06/13/06, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance 

*Thursday 06/22/06, 7:00 PM, Bob's Big Boy, 24021 S. Hawthorne Blvd.,
Torrance 

At either of these, ask for the co-ed softball team. Feel free to ask me for more details
4/30/2006 8:53:27 PM
Celebrating our one year collaring aniversary!

South Bay Munch Schedule
May 2006  

*Tuesday, 05/09/06, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance 
*Thursday 05/25/06, 7:00 PM, Coco's -18120 Hawthorne Blvd., Torrance

At either of these, ask for the co-ed softball team. Feel free to ask me for more details
3/24/2006 3:10:21 AM
Happy Easter! 
South Bay Munch Schedule - April 2006   

*Tuesday, 04/11/06, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance  

*Thursday 04/27/06, 7:00 PM, Coco's -18120 Hawthorne Blvd., Torrance
 
At either of these, ask for the co-ed softball team. Feel free to ask me for more details
2/24/2006 2:58:03 AM
South Bay Munch Schedule          
March 2006
   

*Tuesday, 03/14/06, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance  -

*Thursday 03/23/06, 7:00 PM, Coco's -18120 Hawthorne Blvd., Torrance

At either of these, ask for the co-ed softball team. Feel free to ask me for more details.
2/11/2006 3:41:44 AM
Happy Valentines Day!
South Bay Munch Schedule Feb 2006 
  
Tuesday, 02/14/06, 7:00 PM, National Sports Bar -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance  -

Thursday 02/23/06, 7:00 PM, Coco's -18120 Hawthorne Blvd., Torrance

At either of these, ask for the co-ed softball team. Feel free to ask me for more details.


12/30/2005 2:31:39 AM
For those looking for the photos of the kitten, you'll need to do the more photos button. My fav is him with the remote. *smiles* 
UntamedVixen
 
 Age: 27
 Porthmouths, Canada