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Male Dominant, 38, Twin Falls, Idaho
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Male Dominant, 53, lincoln, Rhode Island
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Male Dominant, 40
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About BDSMman52
I am in a satisfying long-term vanilla relationship, and enjoy superb sex with my partner; but I also enjoy BDSM, which she thinks is perverted & degrading, so I have to discretely practice self-bondage, attend play-parties, and visit Pro Dommes for my BDSM sessions.
I enjoy vanilla sex, but love BDSM even more, so my extra-marital interests are mainly BDSM, as a sub/dom/switch, with one/more women or mixed group.
I practice elaborate self-bondage at home, in hotels, and in secluded woodland whenever possible, attend play-parties, and visit Pro Dommes for heavy BDSM sessions whenever I have the opportunity.
My favorite BDSM scenes involve some or all of the following: tight bondage (suspended, inverted, hogtied, tied to cross/bench, caged, etc); CBT; NT; electro-stim with PES penile/anal electrodes; gags, hoods, masks, blindfolds; leather/rubber suits/harnesses/body-bags; etc.
My taboos are needles/piercings, activities that might put either party at risk from STDs, permanent marks/scars, and smoking. All equipment for insertion into any orifice must be sterile. All BDSM must be Safe, Sane and Consensual.
I am very kinky, often wearing a mixture of sexy women's lingerie (eg stockings, suspenders, thong, corset), rubber/leather garments, leather harnesses, rope bondage (Shibari), chastity & CBT devices, butt plugs, and vibrators under my outer clothing when in public.
Outside of BDSM scenes my friends would say that I have an easy-going, slightly dominant personality, and very romantic.
Sensuality, like touching & massage, is as important as sex. Foreplay is very important, and I like to give & receive lots of foreplay before sex.
I would like to meet and make friends with like-minded BDSM enthusists for safe, sane, and consensual BDSM play, provided they can be discreet and fully respect limits. Extra-marital affairs do not interest me, due to my satisfying long-term relationship.
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I practice elaborate self-bondage at home, in hotels, and in secluded woodland whenever possible. I find the planning and practice equally exciting. It takes a great deal of planning, to ensure a safe escape, usually featuring ice-release methods to ensure a slow but reliable release.
My favorite self-bondage scenario comprises:
.wearing a suspender-corset with stockings and high-heels; .tying a rope body-harness, plus rope bondage down my legs;
.fastening a bondage corset with D-rings, then wrist & ankle cuffs;
.locking the ankle cuffs together;
.attaching electro-stim electrodes to my cock & balls and anus;
.tying my balls to my ankles, so that I have to keep knees slightly bent;
.fastening a vibrating cock-ring;
.tying my cock to nipple-clamps via chain;
.attaching ropes to the bondage-corset to restrain my upper body between a door-frame;
.fitting a head-harness with ball-gag, followed by a leather suspension-hood;
.fastening a hog-tie strap from D-rings on the hood to the ankle cuffs, and then attaching the hood via its suspension chain to a hook above the door-frame.
All this forces me to stand stationary in my heels, with feet gradually going numb, body firmly held between the door-frame, and head pulled upwards by the suspension chain.
After a final check, I turn on the electro-stim device and vibrator, with my cock and anus suffering equal measures of pain and exciting stimulation from the electrical pulses and vibration.
Finally I lock my wrists behind my back, via ice-release devices, to an engine hoist, and begin hoisting my hands upwards via the self-locking pull-cord, in a Strappardo manner, with excitement building with each pull on the hoist, until, with one final tug, whilst on tip-toes, my hands can be pulled no higher.
At this point the unknown wait for release begins (30 mins to 2hrs depending on amount of ice and room temp), whilst I am forced to stand upright, wrists & arms in tension, balls in tension, nipples in tension, feet going numb, with the electro-CBT reaching an inevitable climax (or two, depending on the wait for release).
Another favourite self-bondage scenario is a hog-tie, comprising:
.wrists tied/locked together; .ankles tied/locked together;
.legs and knees firmly tied together;
.NT, electro-CBT, vibrating cock-ring, and electro-butt-plug applied;
.gag and leather hood fitted;
.wrists pulled tightly down to ankles via rope-shortening ring-device;
.various release mechanism employed, but always with ice-release device included. |
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