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BDSM05478

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About BDSM05478

Appliacations are not being accepted here but I am always open to conversation. I am the female half of a poly different, tradional D/s couple. The s is for switch and I'm also bi friendly which basically means I enjoy my life very much. I am currently preoccupied with making my brain tingle in new and exciting ways.

For far too long I guess I have been holding everyone to the same standard of conduct and convictions that are applied in this household. That people still have honor and honesty and am still surprised everytime i am showed I am wrong.... That said one with a dream, found 3 others to believe in that dream and work for the dream and now to take the time to build the 40 acres and a mule Manor.

I have come to the conclusion that people with the names MistressQueenGodess or MasterDomlyDom just irk me. I admit my name is generic I'd call it basic, covers the bases and gives a location. I think it helps potential partners to weed me out of their range. Another thing that irks the hell out of me, alot of these peoples "hard limits" No face slapping?!?! no watersports?!?!? no humiliation?! no hair pulling!! ok that is alot of fun things! Some of these people have never even tried them, refuse to try them. I do not understand people that will not try something new, how can they be that closed off and still be a part of this lifestyle. Isn't that the whole beginnings of WIITWD, to try something new?? ok rant over *breathes deeply*
How is it possible that inside an already alternative lifestyle there are people that have the nerve to be judgmental, closed-mined, but their way is perfect know it alls. I'm sorry if I do not think getting burned is a problem or that knives can be used in more than one room of the house. I'm sorry if for me the lifestyle involves poetry and wine along with those candles. The thing I love the most about this lifestyle is that truely we live with our choices day to day and have direct cause and effect. 
I have never really thought about this but submissive woman must get hounded to death on these sites..... The ratio of single Masters and Doms must be insane. These girls must hear it all, so how am i to proceed? How do We let potential girls know that even though We livethis life 24/7, We are really caring and romantic too. That we seek someone of substance, intelligence, humor to share our already wonderful life. That our idea of poly doesn't involve concepts of firsts or seconds but equality among all parties at least where the heart is concerned but what Master or Mistress says goes.... end of story. We are so different from so many already, how do we express that more than likely we exceed their dreams of what they thought was possible...... with out sounding pompious or cocky. How do we convey that the girl we seek is not just a toy or plaything but some one we want to build a life with, that having children is possible, that we see it as one big happy family where everyone knows what is needed from them and there is more than enough love to go around....... How can you say all that in a 3 sentence email introduction???
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