Dom Male near Raleigh.  Currently not seeing anyone.   (professional white male, non smoker, social drinker, DD free, much prefer non smoker and DD free is a must)

Would like to find a woman to spend quality time with in and out of the bedroom.

Well lets add to that short first line.

First things first, I am married, she is unaware and disinterested in the lifestyle.  Discretion in that respect is expected and provided in return.  I live in NC for work, the family does not.  I travel to them on some weekends, but when in town I am mostly free.  I certainly have other activities in my life as well that keep me occupied at times - including work travel. 

I find myself "addicted" to sensations and reactions.  I love to provide a stimulus.. a kiss, a slap on the ass... etc. and experience the reaction to it.  This "addiction" leads to interests in many things.  Favorites include wax/candle play, sensory deprivation play, light impact play, soft intimate play, teasing.... and on they go.

I always meet in public first.  your safety (and Mine) is absolutely the first thing to take care of... if you do not feel comfortable and trust me, then it will never work out. 

Say hi, we can chat and see if our personalities mesh.  I look forward to hearing from you.

questions welcome

NJH