DO NOT ADDRESS ME AS MISTRESS.... I WILL IGNORE YOU

LOCAL ONLY

LET’S START WITH THE MOST IMPORTANT…. YEP THAT WOULD BE ME :)

I AM A DOMINANT FEMALE WHO LEADS A FULL & VERY BUSY LIFE.  I AM A STRONG INDEPENDENT FEMALE WITH A LOT TO OFFER.  I HAVE AN EASY GOING, FUN LOVING SARCASTIC PERSONALITY WITH HIGH STANDARDS AND EXPECTATION.  I LOVE TO LAUGH AND HAVE A GOOD TIME.  I AM A HOPELESS ROMANTIC, A SUCKER FOR PEOPLE WHO KNOW HOW TO TRULY TREAT A LADY.  I CONSIDER MYSELF STRAIGHT FOR THE MOST PART, BUT THERE HAVE BEEN A COUPLE OF WOMEN IN MY LIFE THAT HAVE TURNED MY HEAD.  I LOVE CHILDREN BUT I HAVE NONE AT THIS TIME.  I’M LOYAL AND PROTECTIVE WHEN IT COMES TO THOSE I LOVE AND WHO ARE CLOSEST TO ME; PISS ME OFF AND YOU WILL MEET WITH MY UGLY SIDE.  I AM A CANCER SURVIVOR WITH A GREAT OUT LOOK ON LIFE, WHO DOES HER BEST TO REMAIN POSITIVE AND DRAMA FREE.  I LOVE TO BE SPOILED AND PAMPERED; FLOWERS ARE GREAT BUT COME ON, PUT SOME THOUGHT INTO IT AFTER ALL YOU ARE TRYING TO IMPRESS ME.

I AM A SENSUAL SADIST.  WHO ENJOYS MANY AREAS OF BDSM FROM FOOT WORSHIP TO RUNNING A SHARP KNIFE ACROSS YOUR THROAT AS YOU HOLD YOUR BREATHE IN FEAR – OR ANTICIPATION.  I RUN A M/S HOUSEHOLD AND I WANT THINGS DONE MY WAY,  I AM THE ONE AND ONLY BOSS.  I AM POLYAMORUS SO IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR MONOGAMY MOVE ON I AM NOT THE ONE FOR YOU; AND NO, YOU WILL NOT CHANGE MY MIND.  I AM AN OWNER, PROTECTOR, MENTOR, AND TEACHER.  MY HOUSEHOLD IS MADE UP OF SUBMISSIVES AND OTHER DOMINANTS  WITH WHOM I HOLD TRUST, RESPECT, AND HONOR BOTH UNDER MY DIRECTION OR AS AN EQUAL.

TO TRULY UNDERSTAND ME, YOU WILL HAVE TO TAKE TIME TO GET TO KNOW ME AND FOR THOSE OF YOU OUT THERE WHO THINK THAT HAVING A FEW ONLINE CONVERSATIONS WILL GET YOU IN MY PANTS YOU ARE SADDLY MISTAKEN.  IF YOU REALLY WANT TO FIND OUT WHAT MAKES ME PURR, STEP UP! AND TAKE THE CHALLENGE … I WELCOME YOUR ATTENTION.

I ENJOY OUTDOOR PHOTOGRAPHY, GARDENING, HOSTING MY FABULOUS PARTIES, AND CUDDLING ON A RAINY DAY.  AS FOR THE LIFESTYLE, I ENJOY TPE THE CONTROL THAT A SUBMISSIVE TURNS OVER TO ME AND WITH THE RIGHT PERSON THE PLAY(BDSM) CAN BE DOWNRIGHT ELECTRIC.

IF YOU ARE STILL WITH ME PLEASE CONTINUE TO READ SO THAT MY TIME ISN’T WASTED.

I HAVE BEEN ACTIVE IN THE DETROIT COMMUNITY SINCE 2005, MY EDUCATION STARTED IN EARLY 2004 AND COMES FROM A FEW DIFFERENT AREAS. I FOUND A FANTASTIC MENTOR ONLINE (SLAVEHUNTER45) HIS ABILITY TO UNDERSTAND MY NEEDS AT THE TIME WAS JUST WHAT I NEEDED TO GROW AND DISCOVER WHO I AM.  I AM STILL CLOSE WITH HUNTER AND I DO SEEK ADVICE WHEN NEEDED.

TO THIS DAY I CONTINUE TO LEARN, AND SHARE MY KNOWLEDGE WITH THOSE IN THE COMMUNITY.  

I HOST 2 GROUPS AND A MUNCH IN THE COMMUNITY AND IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN MORE INFORMATION ON THEM YOU CAN FIND IT OVER ON .

• DOMINANT VIEWPOINTS - IS A DISCUSSION GROUP THAT MEETS IN NORTHERN OAKLAND COUNTY. AT THIS TIME THE GROUP IS INACTIVE. THIS GROUP IS BEING REWORKED.
• SENSUAL SOLES OF MICHIGAN - IS A GROUP DEVOTED TO FEET HERE ON THAT WELCOMES ALL KINDS OF DISCUSSION ON TOES AND THE LOVE OF THEM. I HOST A MONTHLY PARTY IN A PRIVATE LOCATION AND SOME REQUIREMENTS ARE NECESSARY FOR ATTENDING. IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS GROUP ON , PLEASE VIEW
• THE SUNDAY MORNING BREAKFAST CLUB  –  LOCAL MUNCH GROUP HELD IN NORTHERN OAKLAND COUNTRY. COME ON OUT AND JOIN US

VIEWS AND UNDERSTANDINGS:

I ENJOY MANY ACTIVITIES IN BDSM, BUT PLAYING ISN’T WHAT I CALL “THE LIFESTYLE”.

MY BELIEFS ARE THIS:

• BDSM* - BDSM IS SOMETHING YOU DO WITH YOUR PARTNER(S)...TO ME IT STANDS FOR BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE, AND SADOMASOCHISM.  I REFER TO THIS AS “PLAY”.
• DOMINANT/ SUBMISSIVE (D/S) OR MASTER/SLAVE (M/S)* – IS WHAT I CONSIDER “LIFESTYLE” WHICH TO ME IS A LIFESTYLE – I VIEW THE LIFESTYLE AS A CHOICE. IN ESSENCE, A WAY INDIVIDUALS CHOOSE TO LIVE THEIR LIVES.
  I CHOOSE TO LIVE AS THE OWNER IN M/S OR DOMINANT IN D/S.  EITHER WAYIAM THE ONE AND ONLY BOSS.  I WANT THINGS DONE MY WAY.  
• MY VIEWS ON SUBMISSION - SUBMISSION IS CONSENSUAL.  IT IS FREELY GIVEN BY CHOICE - IT IS NOT FORCED, SO DO NOT ASK ME TO KIDNAP YOU, ENSLAVE YOU, AND/OR TREAT YOU LIKE A WORTHLESS PIG.  REMEMBER SERVICE IS ABOUT MY NEEDS NOT YOURS. 

NOW THAT YOU UNDERSTAND THERE IS A DIFFERENCE IN MY VIEWS ON THE LIFESTYLE AND BDSM, LET’S GET INTO WHAT I AM REALLY LOOKING FOR AND HOW YOU CAN SERVE MY NEEDS

WHO AND WHAT I AM I LOOKING FOR…

I AM LOOKING FOR LOCAL SUBMISSIVES WHO ARE WILLING TO SERVE ALONGSIDE OTHERS IN MY HOUSEHOLD.

SERVICE IN MY HOUSEHOLD IS FOR BOTH MALES AND FEMALES, IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO ME AND REQUIRE THE SAME FOUNDATION AS ANY RELATIONSHIP YOU HAVE IN LIFE. I WANT TO SEE WHO YOU ARE AS A PERSON BEFORE I OPEN UP MY HOUSE, HEART, AND MIND TO JUST ANYONE… HONESTY, COMMUNICATION, AND INTEGRITY ARE HUGE FOR ME. DOING WHAT YOU SAY AND MEANING WHAT YOU SAY PRETTY MUCH SUMS IT UP FOR ME. FOLLOW THROUGH IS SOMETHING I WILL HAVE A CLOSE EYE ON AND FOR SOME SUBMISSIVES IT’S WHAT BREAKS A GOOD THING.

NOW, WOULD YOU LIKE TO KNOW HOW TO TURN MY HEAD AND PEAK MY INTEREST? WELL LIKE I STATED ABOVE I AM A SUCKER FOR ROMANCE AND COURTSHIP; IF YOU KNOW HOW TO TREAT A LADY, THEN YOU WILL GET MY ATTENTION. BUT DON’T USE IT TO MANIPULATE ME; I WILL CALL YOU ON YOUR BULLSHIT AND SHOW YOU THE WAY OUT OF MY LIFE.

DESIRED SKILLS FROM WORTHY SUBMISSIVE(S): –
MASSAGE THERAPIST
PEDICURIST / MANICURIST
NUTRITIONIST
MECHANIC
CONSTRUCTION SKILLS

BELOW ARE  POSITIONS AVAILABLE WITHIN MY HOUSEHOLD.

PLAY AND OTHER BENEFITS WILL BE NEGOTIATED AFTER PROBATIONARY PERIOD IS COMPLETE.
FOOT AND LEG SUBMISSIVE - DUTIES INCLUDE BUT ARE NOT LIMITED TO
1. PEDICURE EVERY 2 WEEKS, AND THE DAY OF MY PARTIES. IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO DO THEM YOU WILL PAY FOR THEM.
2. MASSAGES WHEN NEEDED
3. PHOTO AND VIDEO SESSIONS, FOR ALL HOLIDAYS AND EVENTS.
4. SERVING AT THE MONTHLY FOOT PARTY
5. SHOE SHOPPING WITH ME, AND YOU ARE BUYING THEM

KITCHEN SUBMISSIVE – DUTIES INCLUDE BUT ARE NOT LIMITED TO:

1. LEARNING WHAT I LIKE TO EAT, ANY FOOD ALLERGIES OR CONCERNS REGARDING FOOD THAT I HAVE, AND BE ABLE TO COOK FOR ME.
2. YOU NEED TO HAVE THE INCLINATION AND DESIRE TO LEARN, ALONG WITH ME, HOW TO WORK TOWARDS GOOD NUTRITIONAL HABITS, AND BE ABLE TO PRESENT YOUR OWN IDEAS TO ME REGARDING THIS SUBJECT. IF NEW WAYS OF SHOPPING, COOKING, OR PRESENTING FOOD TO ME IS REQUIRED, YOU WILL BE RESPONSIBLE TO LEARN THE NEW TECHNIQUE(S).
3. GROCERY SHOPPING
4. MAINTAINING A CLEAN AND PRESENTABLE KITCHEN.
5. YOU WILL BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY COOKING THAT IS NEEDED AT ALL MY PARTIES
6. YOU WILL WORK CLOSELY WITH THE OTHER SUBMISSIVES TO MAKE SURE THE HOUSE RUNS SMOOTHLY ACCORDING TO MY NEEDS AND DESIRES.

HOUSE SUBMISSIVE(S) – DUTIES INCLUDE BUT ARE NOT LIMITED TO:

1. ALL CLEANING AND INSIDE MAINTENANCE OF MY HOME.
2. TAKING THE GARBAGE OUT ON PICK UP DAY.
3. YOU WILL BE RESPONSIBLE FOR KITCHEN HELP AND FOOD SERVING AT ALL MY PARTIES
4. YOU WILL WORK CLOSELY WITH THE OTHER SUBMISSIVES TO MAKE SURE THE HOUSE RUNS SMOOTHLY.

AUTOMOTIVE TECHNICIAN – DUTIES INCLUDE BUT ARE NOT LIMITED TO:

1. MAINTAINING MY VEHICLE (S) MECHANICALLY.
2. KEEPING MY VEHICLE(S) CLEANED INSIDE AND OUT ON A WEEKLY BASE.
3. WAXING VEHICLE(S) TWICE A YEAR.
4. YOU WILL WORK CLOSELY WITH THE OTHER SUBMISSIVES TO MAKE SURE THE HOUSE RUNS SMOOTHLY.

OUTDOOR MAINTENANCE SUBMISSIVE(S) – DUTIES INCLUDE BUT ARE NOT LIMITED TO:

1. ALL OUTDOOR MAINTENANCE (INCLUDING GARBAGE NIGHT DUTIES IF NEEDED)
2. SNOW REMOVAL
3. WATERING, CUTTING AND EDGING YARD
4. ANY PLANTING THAT IS NEEDED
5. HOLIDAY DECORATING AND TAKE DOWN
6. IF IT NEEDS TO BE DONE OUTSIDE IT IS YOUR JOB.
7. YOU WILL WORK CLOSELY WITH THE OTHER SUBMISSIVES TO MAKE SURE THE HOUSE RUNS SMOOTHLY.

GARDENING SUBMISSIVE(S) – DUTIES INCLUDE BUT ARE NOT LIMITED TO:

I AM VENTURING INTO A GARDENING PROJECT WISH ME LUCK, LOL.

1. GARDENING KNOWLEDGE
2. PHYSICALLY ABLE TO WORK IN A LARGE GARDEN IN VARIOUS WEATHERS, KNOWLEDGE OF GREENHOUSE WORK IS A PLUS

 NOT INTERESTED IN, SO DON’T ASK!_

HOODS
INFANT PLAY OF ANY KIND
CUTTING AND/OR ANY OTHER KIND OF BLOOD PLAY
NEEDLES
CHOKING

AND I SHOULDN’T HAVE TO LIST THIS BUT I WILL BECAUSE THERE IS ALWAYS ONE IN THE GROUP... NO CHILDREN, ANIMALS, OR SCAT.

CAN YOU GRAB MY ATTENTION, AND EARN A PLACE AT MY FEET?

AFTER READING THIS PROFILE, IF YOU HONESTLY THINK YOU FIT MY REQUIREMENTS, THAN PLEASE WRITE TO ME. IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE A NOVEL, BUT IT DOES HAVE TO BE ORIGINAL, AND SHOW THAT YOU HAVE READ MY PROFILE. I WANT TO SEE AT LEAST FACE PICTURE OF YOU IN YOUR PROFILE, IF NOT I WILL ASK YOU TO EMAIL ME ONE.