5/6/2013 5:24:20 AM: Well I haven't been on Collarme that often in recent past.  But I think I may try again. I probably shouldn't be as picky as I have been with myself, and open up my mind to newer things and not dwell on getting things 'exactly right'. 

12/11/2012 2:30:05 PM: He shuddered as he knelt on the floor, stripped naked..........from behind him he felt the presence of someone, then the feel of cool leather and the collar was wrapped around his neck, pulled snugly then buckled..............he felt the tug of the leather leash...........it was beginning.

12/9/2012 2:48:34 PM: My early feelings of sexuality came in the early '80s during puberty, of course, with a love of girls, however a greater fixation with women's knee high leather boots- zip up shafts, tall heels, black or brown usually.  This grew into a love for leather in general- leather skirts, dress gloves, etc. The site of a woman in leather made me weak. As I grew, my interest began to include corporal punishment scenes of being spanked or whipped with a belt by a stern mature woman.  Later I began to entertain thoughts of men, either in a submissive status with an older male mentor, or a dominant status, with a younger submissive boi who wanted to learn and be corrected too. So be it dominated by a mature woman, tranny or maybe gentle gay bear, or dominating a woman who needs to dress like a sl*ut, or even a tranny who dresses that way......I'm pretty versatile. I also have a 'thing' for leather collars. I don't own one, but even the feeling of a leather  belt snugly around my neck gets me going. I like the feeling of being controlled, and in many respects, that's what my previous descriptions have entailed.   I had a short nice conversation yesterday with a guy with somewhat similar interests........likes leather, being hooded, controlled..............things like that. We may not be a perfect match but I'm happy that he's working on finding that right person.   I try to keep things in perspective, hoping there is someone that is compatible with me...........I'll be patient.     to be continued.