< style="font-weight: bold; color: #990000;">Former resident of Columbia, SC, it's where I was when I started my kink journey many long years ago.  I relocated from Columbia to Graham, NC at the end of January, 2009 and moved up the road a bit into Burlington in August, 2011.  We closed on a house in Hampton, GA, and are in the process of moving in.

I have been active in the Leather and BDSM scenes locally and regionally (US - Southeast, and Southwest primarily) since early 1998.  I am the < style="font-weight: bold; color: #990000;">Treasurer and Webmaster for the Leather History Preservation Foundation, < style="font-weight: bold; color: #990000;">< style="font-weight: bold; color: #990000;">and < style="font-weight: bold; color: #990000;">an Associate Member of The Charlotte Tradesmen.  I served two terms (2013-2017) as Sergeant-At-Arms of the Southeast Conference of Clubs, and was the Founder of T3WD (This Thing That We Do), a pansexual BDSM education and support group in Columbia, SC.  If you are looking for information about the Leather & BDSM scene, and groups in and around the Carolinas, Virginia and Georgia I will be happy to share what I can.
 
I am in a committed marriage with MsToriJones.  We as a couple, are poly-capable, but neither of us as individuals, nor together as a couple, are looking for any kind of romantic or sexual relationship at this time.

However, someone < style="font-weight: bold; color: #990000;">< style="text-decoration: underline;">local < style="color: #990000;">< style="color: #000000;">(and by local I mean within a two hour drive or less from the Burlington, NC area[until April 30th, and/or Hampton, GA after April 6th]) with a genuine desire for a service relationship may be considered as a slave for a < style="text-decoration: underline;">< style="color: #ff3300;">houseboy/boi/girl/grrl or < style="text-decoration: underline;">< style="color: #ff3300;">yardboy/boi/girl/grrl position.  Room & board and occasional SM play could be part of the relationship.  More might follow if there is mutual interest.

Size/weight/age/sex/race are non-issues as long as you are healthy and physically able to do housework and yardwork. Mental and emotional health are musts. Don't come to me expecting me to "fix" < style="text-decoration: underline;">your problems. I am not a medical or psychiatric professional, nor am I God. I will gladly help someone in service to me deal with issues, but I am < style="text-decoration: underline;">not the cure.

The house/yard slave would be free to pursue educational and employment opportunities outside the home. They would, in fact, be encouraged to take advantage of those opportunities.

Keep in mind that I am a Dominant and sadist. I expect honesty and obedience, and if you are not a masochist, why in God's name would you want a relationship with a sadist? I am also an exhibitionist, I like to play with an audience. I am active in the BDSM community as a group leader, presenter and activist. If you don't want to be outted, or you are shy around a crowd, this might not be a good position for you.

I'm also a realist, if you have questions or concerns about something I tell you to do, ask. I don't expect you to read my mind. On the flip side, don't expect me to read yours!

< style="text-decoration: underline;">< style="color: #ff3300;">Brats and SAMs need not apply, I have no patience for a partner who can't honestly communicate their needs to me. If you need your ass beat, tell me, don't act out. It's part of that < style="text-decoration: underline;">< style="color: #ff3300;">communicating with your partner idea.

If you are still reading at this point and are interested in learning more, drop me a note. I will gladly provide information on Leather History Preservation Foundation, Southeast Conference of Clubs, the Tradesmen, T3WD, the Tarheels, Greensboro Floating Munch, La Fortress or NCSF, and personal references, upon contact and request.