10/10/2013 7:44:43 PM: I was just replying to an email, and ended in writing something I really enjoyed so here it goes the text for all my friends here... :)   Many women think that men dressing like women is humiliating, thus women clothes are humiliating, thus women in women clothes are to be humiliated.   That's not what I think. I think women are extremely sexy and use the power of sensual clothes on their favor. So women clothes are actually empowering.   The fact I do love to feel and play the women side, means I like to feel the sensuality power, but yet still keep the submissive side in being told what to do after my visual is seducing...   Am I a slut...possibly, but a very private one for one special person. I am looking for quality and well being first, and hopefully a long term relationship. I might be shy, but press the right switches in my mind and you have a phenomenal gurl :)  

9/1/2011 8:09:18 AM: Yesterday I've got waxed again. Front, back, mostly everything. The skin feels great, but why so much pain???   Gee, somebody needs to create a way to numb the area that is being waxed. Almost went to heaven doing my 'clit' area. Men just don't understand what a gurl must do to be nice :)   Skin still red, but getting better, applying lotion and keeping it fresh/ventilated.  

5/18/2010 9:08:02 AM: How to tell the real people from the fakes:I see comments all the time in other profiles about being fed up with time wasters, about all the fakes on here etc.One easy way to spot a fake dom or master is if they refuse to provide any information. The first red flag is a profile with no text or just a throwaway sentence or two. The second warning sign is if they contact you and then refuse to give any details about what they like or how they like it. I have heard things like 'I'm not going to give you wank material, if you want to know just ask' only when you do ask, they won't tell. Or another common excuse is something like 'well I don't do anything scripted' or 'now you're trying to top from the bottom' etc. etc.All those excuses should just raise a red flag that they are either phoney or playing some kind of game or just plain lazy and unimaginative.Real people will communicate like real people. Adults will talk like adults, not a 14 year old kid having a laugh on the computer by creating a profile that says he is 50 and an experienced master.A genuine experienced master will know exactly what they want and be able to tell you within a few easy messages. If it starts to look like hard work, game playing or someone pretending to be something they are not, then it's time to move on and not waste any more time.So in summary, yes, some may be very good at fooling others but lots of times (probably most of the time) you can spot the fakes a mile away.

4/29/2010 2:52:52 PM: I believe the gender of physical and psychological personalities of a person are different things that coexist in a body.While for the majority of the persons there is a match on it, there are also others that this is in discrepancy which in my oppinion creates the M2F and F2M real scenarios.Maybe because of reencarnation, life after death, whatever you want to call, fact is in this world things are always in constant change. It would be possible (and acceptable) that during this process sometimes one of the aspects (physical or psychological) might move faster generating a conflict.From there the person should either live a life with unhappiness or just simply adjust itself. Actually I do believe that by adjusting itself quicker would help in a future life.Men do have their brain in getting laid, scoring, ejaculating and then resting. Women however are much more into the complete aspect of the relationship, not only or for the endings. I do strongly feel this way, and to me be a TG/CD is a way of expressing myself in balance. Not as an aggression to the society or rebel attitude, but only as getting into whom I really am. The use of women clothes, for the most part of it really makes me feel sexy, but that's the same feeling most genetic women have. And we do have cycles - there are these days we want to be more cuddling and feeling the warmth around us, and other days we would like to be the whore of the universe. Since most men wouldn't understand this, I realized that similar feelings would connect easier, from where I discovered myself to be a lesbian. And I would extend this to be lesbian both with genetic females as well as with TG's, as long as they really feel like being a woman like I do.I guess this is what I am, and certainly what I want. I'm still on a big journey to identify more and more my desires, but this certainly is an outline of where I'm going.By the way, I do love almost everything from thesissystore.com -- they are so affordable and so nice...Want to put a smile in my face? Get something from there to me! LOLCarla

5/20/2008 11:44:05 AM: Difference between Transsexual, Transvestite, Crossdressers, and Drag Queens THERE'S A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A TRANSSEXUAL-TS, TRANSVISTITE-TV, CROSSDRESSES-CD, DRAG QUEENS-DQ, AND A HERMAPHRODITES.! >> TRANSGENDER = 'TRANS' IS SHORT FOR 'TRANSITION' THAT MEANS GOING TO OR WILL BE CHANGING, GENDER MEANS 'SEX'.  >> TRANSVESTITE = 'TRANS' IS SHORT FOR 'TRANSITION' THAT MEANS GOING TO OR WILL BE CHANGING, 'VESTITE' MEANS 'CLOTHING'. AS THESE TWO WORDS ARE NOT THE SAME, AS WITH TRANSGENDERS, AS YOU MAY CALL IT, TRANSSEXUALS, IS WAY different from TRANSVESTITES, AS ONE HAS BREAST, AND GOING TO CHANGE THEIR SEX, AND THE OTHER, DON'T HAVE BREAST AND DON'T WANT TO CHANGE THEIR SEX, AND JUST DRESS AND LOOK LIKE FEMALE, AND IS OR FEELS FEMININE. >> TRANSSEXUAL-TS,TG, T-GIRL,= M/F ARE MALE'S WHO CHANGING THEIR SEX TO FEMALE, THAT HAS BREAST AND A PENIS, THAT LIKES THE WAY THEY ARE OR GOING TO OR HAVE HAD THE SURGERY, PRE OP, AND POST OP, THAT LIVES AND WORK AS FEMALE. I LEFT OUT SHEMALE AS IT IS THE SAME THING AS A TRANSSEXUAL, A SHEMALE IS A WORD SOME WILL USE TO SELL ANYTHING THAT HAS TO DO WITH SEX, AND PORN, AND TRANSSEXUALS DON'T LIKE TO BE CALLED SHEMALES. >> TRANSSEXUAL-TS,= F/M ARE FEMALE WHO CHANGING THEIR SEX TO MALE, THAT REMOVE THEIR BREAST, AND HAVE A PENIS ADD ON THROUGH SURGERY, PRE OP, AND POST OP, THAT LIVES AND WORK AS MALE. >> TRANSVISTITE-TV,= DON'T HAVE BREAST AND DON'T WANT BREAST, BUT LOVES TO DRESS UP AS A FEMALE, AND LOOK LIKE A FEMALE, TRANSVESTITES ARE HETEROSEXUAL OR BISEXUAL. >> CROSSDRESSES-CD,= JUST WEAR LINGERIE, OR SOME OF WOMEN'S CLOTHING, AND NEVER DRESS ALL THE WAY AS A FEMALE, AND SOME WILL WEAR WOMEN'S BRA'S PANTIES, AND PANTYHOSE UNDER THEIR MEN'S CLOTHING AT HOME AND WORK, THEY JUST LIKE HOW WOMEN LINGERIE FEELS, CROSSDRESSERS ARE MOSTLY HETEROSEXUAL, A FEW ARE BISEXUAL' >> DRAG QUEENS-DQ = ARE FEMALE IMPERSONATOR, A STRAIGHT, BI, OR GAY MAN, ESPECIALLY A PERFORMER, WHO DRESSES AS A WOMEN. WHO PERFORMS ON STAGE CALLED DRAG SHOWS 0R FEMALE IMPERSONATER SHOWS >> HERMAPHRODITES,= ARE MALE OR FEMALE BORN WITH BOTH A VAGINA AND A PENIS, SOME YOU WILL SEE A VAGINA UNDER THEIR PENIS, BUT THERE DIFFERENT KINDS OF HERMAPHRODITES, SOME MAY ONE OR THE OTHER SEX ORGANS HIDDEN INSIDE OF THE BODY NOT SEEN OUT OF THE BODY. >> TRANSGENDER-TG = TO SOME MEANS TRANSSEXUAL, AND HERMAPHRODITES, AS THEY ARE OF A DIFFERENT GENDER, A TRANSVESTITE AND CROSSDERSSERLIKES BEING MALE BUT LOVE DRESSING FEM AS THEY DO IT AS A FETISH OR AS A LIFE STYLE. TRANSSEXUALS ARE NOT MALES, TRANSSEXUAL IS A STEP A WAY OF BEING A HERMAPHRODITES, AS TRANSSEXUAL WAS BORN MENTALLY AS A FEMALE, AS SOME  PSYCHIATRIST HAS STATED AS THEY HAVE BEEN DOING RESEARCH FOR YEARS AND FOUND OUT THAT TRANSSEXUALS WAS BORN MENTIALLY AS FEMALE. There a lot of people that admires TS_TV_CD_DQ, and still don't know the difference between them, this page will help people to know the difference, Some TV, CD and DQ have got upset with this site that puts the difference in detail, I not trying to get some people upset but to keep the few from being naive, as we all know we all don't want to be miss labeled.