Hi, I decided to change my profile around a little. I have been in and around this lifestyle 15 years, I Know what I need and I know who I am. I'm submissive and I long to be Dominated by a man who knows and understand what this is truly all about. Not interested in playing games, like you're married or live or have others, and they do not know who you are etc. If you can not control yourself and have you together, you would not be able to Control nor lead me anywhere. I like an intelligent and passionate thought provoking man, who have the skills and knowledge to stay in my head. i live for transparency and hope you do also. No secrets. I know some may not care for distance, I use to feel that way, but realized that what I want does not come along often, and if you're miles away and we click.. I'm willing to find out more:). Poly use to be a limit for me, now I'm just open minded, if you're able to maintain me and another, it is a case by case basis.. It takes a lot to maintain one person. Anyway would like to get to know you, if you feel we're on the same page:).