I have discovered that my wife has desires to be dominated.   At this point, all we've done is talk about a Dom and she is still trying to understand the whole D/s thing.   A lot of education still needs to take place.    Being a Dom  is not my thing so I'm looking for an experienced, mature, cultured male Dom with which to discuss the possibilities.   Also, keep in mind that my wife is a BBW.  That body style doesn't appeal to everyone.