If you are looking here because I have added you to my favourites, I hope whether or not you you like what you read that you will accept it as a compliment to how you have expressed yourself within your profile rather than an indication of any intent to pester you.

I am here to fuel my fantasies which I would distinguish as Submissive rather than Slave orientated. I am not a pain slut but do get turned on by the thought of a woman exerting contol of / amending my sexual response cues.

Note to professional mistresses: I realise that  you may be the easiest route to exploring these fantasies, and that you are worth whatever you decide to ask as a tribute. But I do not earn a city banker's salary that would enable me to sustain the sort of frequent meetings and engender the trust that would be required to live out these fantasies and lead a balanced life.

I realise that there might be hard core members of this site who will frown at a profile from yet another fantasising wanker - but hopefully they will respect the honesty.