What I'm looking for in a women:

a woman, who enjoys both being domme and sub (what I mean to say is must be submissive, but can be a switch also), I myself like to switch depending on my mood. I also prefer someone local, so we can actually meet, and build a friendship/relationship. This lovely person needs to be open and understanding of my trust issues, and respect my odd limits, I will not discuss them openly on my profile, that's far to personal, in my opinion.

What I'm looking for in a male:

Any males that are not my husband must be 100% submissive to me. I do not have time to waste on males who claim to be submissive, but do not obey... Any sub males interested must be local or willing to travel to meet with in the first 60 days after introduction. Sub males should not expect sexual contact.  It's not a reward or gift to be given, it's something I will take if I want it.

About me:

I am married to a wonderful man, we've been together over 10 years now, that being said we are in a 100% open relationship, he sees others, as do I. I have the ability to see other men, I choose who if I desire one. With the right woman I would gladly have a 3 some with my husband and her, or an ongoing poly relationship, but that's not a requirement by any means in the person I am seeking.

For the men who read this and are dominant, messaging me rude things because you are pissy that I have no interest in you is not only immature it also will not get me to respond to you.