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Some women, they only Dominate through pain. I think pleasure can be a greater torment. Maitresse Madeline

Control is about power.......not position. Me

If you're not 100% single, don't contact me.

Also, if you're a Republican and voted for tRump, move on.

The only reason I dont have a face pic on here is because of my job. Im more then willing to share one once weve gotten to know each other better.

Ive never been a writer, for some reason I find it difficult to express myself in writing. Part of the problem is my brain is usually thinking at least 3 sentences ahead of my fingers, so I tend to get a little muddled, or ramble.

So, that being said........

Im a Mother, a BBW, and would love to gain some real life experience in the lifestyle. I identify myself as a BDSM MistressDomme, simply because the definition is more fluid for me. Im a very easy-going type person, too many things have changed in my life suddenly, and sometimes for no reason, for me to get too hung up on changes. As long as I retain final say in all things, and hard limits arent breached, then everything else is negotiable.

Ive been told, more then once, that I rule with my heart. I believe that to be very true. There is nothing forced, or fake about my Dominance, it simply....is. I prefer to guide along my path with Love, and praise, rather then rule with fear and pain, though, of course, I reserve the right to inflict pain as I see fit.

Im an extremely honest person, even if it does not benefit me, or hurts me, Ill tell the truth. Most people cant handle that. If you dont want the truth, then dont ask me.

Okay, so, finally on to what Im seeking in a boy...... I want someone who is able to fascinate me on an intellectual level, an achiever, successful, and confident. He is not weak, he does not need me to cope with life, he doesnt bend to everybody - but he gifts himself to me and submits to my wishes. He is my most treasured, precious possession, and though I will sometimes hurt him, I would never harm him. Id prefer someone who is bi, or at least curious, but if youre not, its not a deal-breaker. If you dont live in Kansas, then you must be willing to relocate. Anything beyond that, well, we can discuss. And with that all being said......if youre still reading, you must be at least a little bit interested, so message me before you lose your nerve..........

Another crossroads So, I've reached that point again. I've lost hope in finding my One, and my heart wants to consider trying vanilla. Again. I know it's not for me, but I am tired of holding back my feelings, and want a relationship to pour them into. I don't need a man in my life, I am a whole Woman by myself, but I do crave the companionship. I don't want to force anything, and honestly I kind of feel sorry for the boy I do find. I have a lot of pent up feelings, and desires, and he's going to have a lot to make up for, for making me wait so long to find him. I keep reminding myself that I'm not going to find what I want in the vanilla world. I tend to attract narcissistic, alcoholic, abusers in my vanilla life. I read somewhere that I may not attract any more then anyone else, I may just see it sooner. Nonetheless, where are you my sweet, slave boy? And why aren't you in my bed worshipping me?

Someone asked me exactly what I'm seeking, I'm posting it here rather then waiting forever for my profile to be approved... A male unicorn....someone that is a true sex slave......whos be all, end all is pleasing me, and me alone. Someone who doesnt need humiliation for me to control him. Who gets off on the mind fuck of the lifestyle, and doesn't try to top from the bottom. Ive never actually Owned anyone before, so, he has to be willing to explore with me, and allow me to.........experiment on him.....he also must be good in bed, Im no size Queen, but he has to have enough to actually fuck with. He also must be very oral, because while I enjoy sex, oral is definitely the best way to get me off......

I believe women's rights are human rights. And human rights are constitutional. Period. Most of the people making these decisions about women's bodies have no idea how women's bodies work. There are Senators who believe women's eggs have shells, that an aspectopic pregnancy can be implanted into the womb and become a baby. Men who believe women urinate out of their vagina. These are the men who are making decisions about MY BODY. And I am NOT okay with that. If you want to make decisions about my body, at least know how it works. Or hey, how about allowing me to make decisions about my body? Like how men can make decisions about their own bodies.

Roe v Wade This has nothing to do with babies. If it was about babies, we'd have free healthcare. If it was about babies, you wouldn't have to pay to give birth. If it was about babies, we'd have months of paid leave. If it was about human babies, we wouldn't force mothers to have to choose to keep their job, or put their baby in daycare AT 6 WEEKS. It's ILLEGAL to take nursing kittens and puppy's from their mothers before 8 weeks. Why don't I have the same rights? This has NOTHING to do with babies. And EVERYTHING to do with suppressing a Woman's RIGHT to autonomy over her own body.

Okay, I get that fake profiles, fake finDommes, and fake Dommes are annoying. But when I see someone complaining about it over, and over and over on their profiles, it makes me think they are just going to complain about everything. And why should I waste my time with that? I know they're annoying, but just ignore and block them, and put it out of your mind. Focus your need to serve on finding a real Domme. You'll be a much happier person, and it will make you a better sub.

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