After being away from the site for some time, I have returned.  Someone had my old username, so this is a new one.

I'm seeking a woman for a long term, monogamous relationship.  I consider myself a Switch but tend toward Submissive.  That should not be taken to mean I'm neither not experienced as a Top, nor that I don't enjoy it.

I cannot currently relocate due to responsibilities to a parent, but may be able in the future under the right circumstances.

I am serious and dedicated but also all about having fun, travel when possible, sharing the kink experience but just as much having as many or more interests outside of kink.  Variety is the spice of life, after all.

I'm not looking to waste time on long online courtships.  The contact will hopefully move from messages here, to texts and emails, to video to meeting within a couple months.  There's too much living to do to waste time.  I don't mind driving a bit to meet and spend time together.  Right now my time away from home is somewhat limited.

I value honesty, openness and very much an adventurous spirit.

I will try to respond to all messages.

I won't write many, I rarely write anyone as it is.  If I write you, its that I am genuinely interested to know you, but I ask without reservations or expectations.  It's hard to find the right person, but I intend to try.

Fair notice, I am a politically active liberal, agnostic and I have cats.