If you like adventures, pleasure, friendship and fun say hi. If you want to learn how your body works or revel in it say hi. If you want to be treated as a fully for-med and interesting human being and if you are capable of treating me in the same way say hi.

I like men and women. I am not interested in 'looks'. I'm drawn to smiles, openness and creativity. I understand that it takes a while for people to trust.

People are people and I like people being themselves.

I'm very well trained in certain things. If you like orgasms, sensuality, tight bondage, suspension, medical play say hello.

I tend to poop myself when my bum is played with. But I love my bum being played with. It's very humiliating. Looking for someone for whom this is a turn on not a turn off. I'm also into abdl play either way.

After 20 yrs I've a fair bit of 'kit' a lot of contacts and a good reputation. references are available.

I am a listening, thinking, non-binary person. If you want to catch my attention that's the bit to aim for.

I'm intelligent, well read, well travelled, respectful, consensual.

I'm into cycling (about 200 miles a week) sailing (ive a GP14 and a costal skipper qualification) skiing (France for a week twice in the winter) and out-door adventure but I'm not hyper fit. I exercise to eat and drink!

Into classical music. I'm a regular at the Halle, the Stoller Hall and the RNCM. 

I'm absolutely not an alpha male. 

Absolutely not looking for a monogamous relationship and I'm not looking to be owned or to own.

If you want a have relaxing time, exploring kink then give me a shout. 

I do have some specific interest that don't fit into a general introduction. Hopefully I can find someone into those things on here at some point but until then let fun, friendship, pleasure and pain commence.