BEFORE YOU READ OR MESSAGE ME

I am only looking for individuals between 25-55

YouMUSTlive in NYC,. Long island or close by.

You have experience in kinkBDSM. I refuse to be anybodys teacher. I am not looking to help you explore.
I dont mind new but please have an idea about what you want.

If you do not message me something directly related to my profile, I will likely not reply.

Ive exerted dominate tendencies since a very young age.

I really thrive in the DDlg dynamic), with a wbratty princess thrown in for good measure.

Really want to hang out with woman who love to try anything at least once.


Im a realist and have come to terms with how unlikely it is that one person can fulfill all my needs.

I am active on FetLife. No, I will not send you my username ASAP.

I am familiar with the NYC public BDSM scene. I know a lot of people who are active, though I dont care for much involvement these days. I enjoy munches, meetings, classes and workshops. Parties too, but rarely.

I am NOT looking for just a quick lay, but I am also not looking for immediate commitment. A regularly occuring bedroom-only situation with the right person could be a possibility. Its a case-by-case basis sort of thing because what Im looking for changes based on who Im doing it with.

I am not into men or tvs, etc. The ONLY exception to this is that I may be interested in working my way up to is couples. However, I dont know if Im ready to go head first into that.

Yes, I am a dominate, but I am human first. You do not belong to you simply because you identify that way. Just like a sub or slave you pneed to earn the right to call me your dominate.
Kink does not have to be inherently sexual for me, but I love when it is - however, this isnt something I want to do casually. Its not something t share with just anyone. Playing with you 8800 esire w sex with you. As far as what Im into
oes rules, obedience, discipline, punishment, bondage, impact play, sensory deprivation, fisting, DP, anal play, squirting, exhibitionism, orgasm controldenial, dirty talk, qkpuo, experience, and so, so much more