I am an experienced Dom who enjoys controlling the mind as much as the body. I respect all limits and feel strongly that both parties in a D/s relationship should gain from the experience.

I would describe myself as straight but would have no problems in allowing a bi male to serve me. The pleasure I get from controlling another person is the same whatever the gender

I am married but my wife is partly disabled and has no interest in bdsm. Although I can't accommodate I can travel a reasonable distance and am hoping to find a sub of any age who can meet about once a month on a weekday daytime.

I have a good sense of humour and would also like to think that bdsm can be fun even when it involves a mild element of pain & punishment.