The first sign you are smart enough to be my submissive is that you have read this profile and are obedient to the requests within it.  I am smart, have a good bullshit meter, live to the beat of my own drum. I am kind, compassionate, have a happy personality who sees the glass half full even when times are difficult. I am looking for someone who sees life as a happy thing, growing old as a gift and lives life for the joy. I am NOT a sadist, and am NOT looking for masochist. I will NOT provide pain.... life has enough. For me.... Life is good.... how can you make it better?

I am a lifestyle mistress, I am all about control, service, and companionship. Discipline has 3 steps. The 1st is a conversation about the problem, the second is a good old fashioned s p a n k i n g .... discipline not loving, and last is I do not want to deal with this any more.

I finally retired in 2022. I am looking for a submissive that loves life, is retired or or ready to retire, and is self supporting to join my household.  I am in no hurry to jump in head first. I am looking for someone to meet my needs. Those include provable good health, a man of his word who is funny, smart, and can read and write good English. Fully functioning is not a requirement, we are getting old. Be ready to work hard, play hard and enjoy all life has to offer.

I AM LOOKING FOR REAL-TIME, SINGLE MEN ONLY.  Seperated is still married.  I want to MEET YOU, not cam or send multiple emails. I do not do online play sessions. I am a big girl structurally. No, I am NOT married, and YES, I am very picky. Why? Because I can be. YOU need to impress ME. Not the other way around. You must be intelligent. Engage my mind, and you engage me. Perfection not a must, and an extensive education is not a requirement. A sound understanding of some Grammer and basic punctuation is definitely a plus. Poor grammar and or punctuation skills and use of text-speak make me think you are a dumb ass.'

You must be a man of your word, take great pride in your character, and actually follow through with what you say you're going to do. Someone who is kind, caring, affectionate, upbeat, positive, forward thinking, quick on their feet, and has a wicked sense of humor. Someone with impeccable manners and politeness, who can meet me where I live. Ability to anticipate my needs is HUGE! Responses that include the following will be answered as quickly as I can.

I would like at least a paragraph, something that catches my attention, shows that you are literate and have a sense of humor and have read this profile. Tell me what your skills are. Prove to me that you have a brain in your head and figure it out. Whatever you want, whatever you desire, and you can have all of me are all cheap, flippant answers that fall into the do not count category.

If you have read this profile in its entirety please feel free to contact me.  

Please do not become an admirer without introducing yourself and asking permission. Admiration comes from knowledge. Doing that is the quickest way I know to find yourself blocked and hidden... Being under 65 is also not acceptable unless you are self supporting in some way. I have a good life..... and do not need anyone to feel complete. I want someone I can share a life with in a FLR.