Hello, I am Ms. V.

I am here to find a slave. To me that means a lifetime relationship commitment, one we can grow old with, have fun with, and do our way (meaning My way, of course!) One that includes a lot of kink along with the other adventures of life.

It does NOT mean an "FLR" where some guy expects me to spank him when he gets the chores wrong. We're adults, just do your share of the damned chores. If you don't know how to mop a floor, check YouTube. Spankings are boring, and I should not need to "punish" for daily life stuff. That is not fun, and why on earth would I choose to spend time with somebody that incompetent and annoying? So if you've been reading FLR websites, I am not the dominant you are looking for.

I am a well-educated professional, a bohemian outlaw, a maker, and an adventurer. I am also an older woman who tends to stay within a decade of my own age, at most, for partners. I like sharing some common history with my partner and being in the same stage of our lives. And yes, my slave is my partner, the other face of my coin.

I am interested in scifi and fantasy, historical fiction, and dabble in many other genres. I do a wide variety of crafting and am usually making several different things, from wire weaving and metal embossing to polymer clay and leather braiding. I love dragons. I have 2 small dogs, and a lizard. I will always have a dog. I like spicy food. I love Thai curry, but not Indian so much. I like purple. I listen to heavy metal, alternative, classic rock, and like Bach and Schubert, and Buddy Guy. I am a freestyle Wiccan. I am a liberal-leaning independent moderate with a gun.

I am very direct, blunt, and practical. I try to see both sides of things, and predict problems so they can be solved in advance rather than wait for things to go wrong. Sometimes that comes across as negative. I am working on that, but be prepared to deal with it. I am really not a negative person, I am very laid back, sometimes grumpy but almost never angry, and generally pretty easy going. Just do it my way and everything works out fine!

I am a sadist. Well, sadomasochist, to be correct, but my sadism is very much ascendant. I will hurt you, and smile while I do it, and enjoy the hell out of it. But thats about play, not punishment. I do not mix the two up, and expect to punish rarely, if ever. I am not interested in domestic discipline. For that matter, I am not into any particular fetish, I am a broad-spectrum kinkster. I would prefer my slave to be adventurous like that, too. A person who sticks on one primary fetish would not be a good match for me.

If you think you would like to serve an aging bohemian adventurer, drop me a line. If you do, here are some pointers:

Do not call me Mistress, Goddess, Miss, or any other title. If you need to use Maam to feel polite, thats fine, but otherwise I am Ms. V. Or just V, if you are writing for some other purpose.

Write a letter that shows me that you are literate and know how to write a letter. Yes, thats important to me. Much of my life is spent around the written word, in one way or another. I want a slave who can share those aspects of my life with me.

Write like one human writing to another. A sub male and slave are of equal human value to anybody on the planet, and whoever you are, you are not Mine, and I have not consented to behaving like your dominant, so do not behave like my sub. Be a person first.

Write as though you are interested in me as a person, and write as an interesting person yourself, and tell me where our interests intersect.

That means do NOT write to ask permission to write. That is incredibly annoying. Do not waste my time. Do not send me one line small talk emails. I am not looking for a pen-pal, and make a very bad one myself.

Do not ask me for cyber, or long distance. I am not moving anybody to me until I have gotten to know them in person, so if you cannot travel often enough to my location in a reasonable amount of time to really get to know each other, do not expect a long distance relationship. And if you are not a permanent US resident, it is not happening. I am not into years of red tape with immigration. No.

I am not interested in sissy maids, roleplay, chastity, cuckolding, female supremacy, goddess-worship, or any fetish that is a consuming interest to the exclusion of other things. No obsessions, no addictions, no drama.

If your profile picture is your dick or your butt, I will hide your profile. I like those parts on a person I like for other reasons, but they do not make a good introduction, and somebody who thinks they do is not compatible with me. If your profile picture is butt plugs or a chastity cage, why? Do you think we do not know what they look like? If your biggest interest is in what toys can be used on you, I will not be your fetish provider.

**The pictures I have posted here are my own photography (except the ones of me, of course), the floggers and cats are things I made myself, the dungeon was my own, the bondage was done by me.

**The Harley is not mine but was offered for a photo-shoot. The slave on it is neither me nor mine. The bondage and photography ARE mine.

**Please do not use any photography or writing from my profile without specific permission from me.