I'm not good at making the first move in contacting people. If youve viewed me I'll probably view you back but I'm not brave enough to send a first message. Please don't let that stop you though. 

It's been a few days now and my female friend and I are still chatting away. We've become firm friends and kindred spirits. When one of us is down we are there to make each other smile. I never expected to find someone as cool as her but I did, and I'm so glad. 

This site can get to you, you think you've made a connection then just like that you haven't as the person no longer answers you or you rudely get blocked. But every now and again a bright diamond appears and suddenly I've made the best friend ever. She and I are spookily on the same wavelength and its so great to be able to talk to someone who understands lifes complexities and the struggle that women have trying to find a decent guy. She's been through a lot in her life but she's a total catch and if you've ignored or turned her away her, wow did you miss out.

I was blocked in the middle of a conversation with no explanation. Its made me feel awful now as it took a bit hit on my confidence.  Are there no decent people out there?   

What does a girl have to do to find herself a decent guy here? Why is it so difficult?