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Identifying spam messages
One of the best ways to identify spam messages is consider whether the message is generic and would apply to anyone or whether it has been written specifically for you. Consider the following two example messages:
This is spam and should be ignored: "I really like your profile. Take a look at my profile and write me back if you're interested in speaking with me further."
This is not Spam: "I really liked what you wrote about Shibari in your profile. I agree that it can be difficult to master."

Please do not list illegal activities in limits lists
Please feel free to add a list of limits (activities which you consider off-limits) to your profile as desired. That being said, we would ask you to please not list illegal activities in such lists as doing so implies that the listed activities might be otherwise acceptable to the rest of our community. Inclusion of illegal limits in profiles is not a violation of our terms of service but we would ask you to please refrain from doing so.

If necessary adjust your mail controls
If you are receiving an excessive volume of unwanted messages you can use your mail controls to direct messages from users falling outside of a specified criteria (e.g. age range or location) to your bulk folder. If this is not a problem which you're experiencing just leave your mail controls at the default setting.

Offensive pictures sent through the onsite messaging system
Users will sometimes send out offensive pictures in the hope that the recipients of those pictures will tell the sender how offended they are. Please use the reporting system to let us know about an offensive picture sent to you by another user.

Requests for money
Scammer seek out new community members who may not be familiar with their tactics. We are therefore asking all established members to join us in educating new members about scammers and their tactics and to caution new members not to send money to other users for any reason.

It's a good idea to keep a backup copy of your profile and journal entries
Writing a long well-thought out profile can take a great deal of time and it's prudent therefore to keep a backup copy of what you've written.

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