BD4U

I believe men are and should be the dominant gender of our species. This may sound redundant, coming from a professed dominant, or top male, but male dominance and female submission are not the birthright of all men. Sadly, there are many for whom this responsibility is beyond their ability to shoulder. A man must be able to control his own urges and desires before he can attempt to regulate another's. A woman's submission is a gift, to be honored, protected and cherished like the rare and splendid item it is. No woman can trust a man that drinks or indulges in drugs to excess. Who allows emotions to cloud judgement. A true dominant man must hold himself to a higher standard than his undisciplined brethren in order to demonstrate by his actions that he has the wherewithal to possess this calling.

I move through the day almost invisible. I go about my business quietly, with a determined purpose. I do not make a spectacle of my actions, I just do what is necessary to get the job at hand completed. Other men resent my assumption of authority; they decry the way I assess the task at hand, then make suggestions (we are, afterall, co-workers) or declarations as to how it should be accomplished. I walk the streets of LA, viewing women that cross my path. Some scrutinize me as well, while others dismiss me as too old, or unavailable because they are in a committed or current relationship. I look in their eyes, searching for that spark of attraction that used to come much more often, but hasn't ignited with the remembered intensity of the past. I am still the same assertive, demanding, intractable lover of past years, just a bit older and wiser. You can still see it, if you look deeply into my eyes: the man that can still give u both pain and pleasure until they are one and the same. It just takes looking beyond the surface.