Bayudness

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	About Bayudness Clever absolutely gets bonus points.I am very interested in talking with most anyone from any walk of this great community about a great many subjects. I will answer any inquiries to the best of my ability and honestly, I don't believe in lying to myself or others.(whats the point it all comes out anyway) I am here because I wish to learn and explore more of what this great community has to offer.I find the more I look around the more " Hey I've done that a bunch of times" comes up. I was never part of a community I just did these things at home by nature for years. So by all means send me a mssg, Whatever your into.I am Not and instant Ahole,Not disrespectful and expect the same. Interested in finding SubF/Babygirl LTR ,Body type race/creed religion not overly important to me. Could turn into a 24/7 or part-time situation I am flexible. Favorite quote: "Heya little miss riding hood, I gotta say your looking mighty good...Your everything a big bad wolf could want. AWOOO"

I will never lie to you or be unclear about my intention. I Dont typically "beat" slaves in the traditional sense, I prefer clever and interesting methods to the standard ones.
I very much like to take pride in my slaves and to have others admire them, But I am fiercely territorial about certain things so will never share. ( yeah no bestiality ever of any kind).

I WILL challenge your mind often and you will like it.

I am financially comfortable and able to provide the things that are needed but am by no stretch a Sugardaddy of any kind.

found this an interesting diversion.Some things in there that I didn't expect but I think that is kinda the point.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Dominant
96% Daddy/Mommy
94% Owner
94% Master/Mistress
90% Rigger
89% Brat tamer
84% Primal (Hunter)
78% Experimentalist
74% Voyeur
65% Ageplayer
61% Sadist
56% Exhibitionist
40% Degrader
30% Non-monogamist
13% Vanilla
4% Masochist
4% Girl/Boy
3% Switch
1% Primal (Prey)
1% Submissive
1% Pet
1% Brat
1% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee

The order of things in online conversations as I see them.

First understand the the Sub has ALL of the power INITIALLY, they give the Go/Nogo.

Initial mssg= HI I liked your profile and this is why( prove you read the GD profile).Then ASK them to chat or respond if they so choose.( You are not THEIR Dom dont act like it).

Response given and CONVERSATION between 2 adults ensues for indeterminate period of time until both parties are comfortable with exchanging maybe phone number or any other SAFE means of more personal contact. (You are still NOT their Dom dont act like it unless that has been discussed and agreed upon)

They meet at a SAFE place. Coffee shops, libraries, Cafe's ,Any public place that allows for decent conversation. This place should allow for you to cut it short if its uncomfortable or extend it if things are going well. I like lunch/coffee type things.

At this point there are allot of direction this can go depending on way to many things so I will not elaborate farther.

In my opinion this order is Ideal for everyone ( there may be slight tweeks here and there but in general)

I have been a Dom all of my life and never realized there was a title to it. It simply was and is how I am. It is my nature and it projects to those around me very quickly. I used to try to hold it back I guess, trying to NOT be the dominant in the room when people simply defer to you automatically is very difficult and frustrating. So now I simply take control and deference from those around me as natural and am happy with it.

LOL the scams are real.... Are any of them actually any good at it tho ? Seems pretty amateur kiddy wanna be kinda stuff. I would point out all the terribly stupid things they do that make it obvious but I am not going to tell them how to get better at it.

baysadist Male Dominant, 34, East Bay, California	bayougal Female Submissive, 26	baybe Female Submissive, 50	bayDevilsadist Male Dominant, 37, East Bay, California
bayareakink Male Submissive, 50, Walnut Creek, California	BayAreaMistres Female Dominant, 45	BayDom Male Dominant, 60, Jns 32-35 M6	baycitymibi Male Dominant, 53
BayAreaChefWhR Male Switch, 26, Southern CA, California	BayouGurl Female Submissive, 56, bronx, New York	baypet Male Submissive, 42, Silicon Valley, California	BayAreaDom Male Dominant, 34, Oakland, California

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