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Female Submissive, 56, bronx, New York
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Female Submissive, 24
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About bayouwench
I am new to the lifestyle and came to the site, at a friend's suggestion, to find a mentor, and eventually a Master.
The first part of my mission has been accomplished.
***Because my mentor happens to be a male Dom does NOT mean that he dominates me! That is not the nature nor intent of this relationship.***
Thanks to all who have offered kind advice. It is appreciated.
I am interested in friendship only at this point, and don't have the free time to be meeting anyone, playing, or starting a relationship. When/if that changes, I will update this. I had my profile "hidden" for awhile to avoid all the messages from people who can't or won't read profiles. I'm out in public again for another run at looking for friends.
Unfortunately there is NO setting here for *friends* and the category is *friends only*.
I am seeking Doms, subs, switches, males, females, transgender, straight, gay, or bi as friends. Race is also of no concern to me. It all really makes no difference, when you come down to it. I have most all of these types of vanilla friends, so why not here as well?
This is me:
Single
Submissive
Blonde hair and blue eyes
I am educated, employed, well read, and healthy.
Non smoker and only occasional light social drinker
Fitness, museums, dining out, concerts, plays, movies, books, and art exhibits are some of the things I enjoy.
Cooking is one of my better skills, although I tend not to do very much anymore as I work long hours and live alone.
My goal for the new year was to eat healthier, and I've met that goal. Now I just have to fit some time in for exercise.
Not into heavy or extreme pain, knives, guns, torture, cages, water sports, scat, groups, or public sex or play, enemas, animals, kids, needles, or electrocution. (Some of this stuff I have already been offered since joining, and I had to Google the terms to even know what the were!)
I think that I would like to explore some light to moderate spanking and bondage.
Mental and emotional control are very alluring to me. This is so much more than the domineering and manipulative behavior I have experienced in vanilla life, or so it seems from what I have read.
Orgasm control is also of interest, although I really don't know a lot enough about it either. I don't think I would care for extreme orgasm denial, esp. if a Dom is stimulating me. That seems to me to be just another form of torture.
Age play is interesting, and was somewhat off putting at one time. My Mentor has patiently explained a lot about it and given me the benefit of his experience and resources, and the whole DD/ lg thing makes much more sense to me now. I was a Daddy's girl growing up, so who knows?
I really don't see myself as anyone's kitty, puppy, pig, or pony. Being called a pet as a term of endearment is one thing. Being expected to look and act like one is another.
Some more things I've discerned from messages received:
I am not into adult baby play or wearing diapers or a chastity belt.
I am very much into naughty, but not nasty, if you can understand what that means.
I am NOT going on cam to chat nude. Seriously, folks!
I am also NOT interested in seeing your cock shots and have no intention of posting or sending you nude pictures. Find your ego outlet and titillation elsewhere. If sex is all that you see in this lifestyle, then you're not for me. There has to be more!
I am still learning as much as I can, as fast as I can, considering my work and other responsibilities, and cannot be here as often as I would like.
If you should choose message me, please know that I will get back to you as soon as I can, and if it isn't right away, I'm not being rude or disrespectful.
Best wishes and good luck to you all on your journey and in your search.
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