bauser1238

I am 31 years old, white, 6'-0", 220 lbs... and straight. I have wanted to be a salve for years, but the thought of being dominated by a woman never appealed to me. I think that as a straight male, being (willingly) dominated/controlled and disciplined by a man, adds a level of inherent humiliation that is a large turn on.

I have looked at BDSM images and videos since about the time I discovered the internet (at about the age 14). It has long been something that I have wanted to participate in. I have had one semi-real experience with "the scene," in which I went to a club with a (former) girlfriend who had years of experience as a sub with former playmates. We went with her male friend, and he handcuffed her to an X and whipped her, then turned the flogger over to me. Although I did enjoy using the flogger on her, I couldn't help but fantasize that it was I who was shackled.

As far as interests, humiliation, bondage, verbal abuse, spanking. My hard limits would include the many standards (scat, blood, breath play), but it would also include anal. A soft limit may include (my) anal play, at least until I was worked up to it.