Baldur

Male Dominant, 35, Portland, Oregon

Male Dominant, 58, nijmegen

Male Submissive, 34, Stanwood, Washington

It seems to me that bdsm is regarded by most as sort?of 'end in itself', as a kind of preoccupation and an isolated, though highly emotionally-charged,?subject and endeavor. I guess that's understandable, given that's how people tend to view everything, but it is not how I view it. To me, bdsm is a 'means' to something else. A part of greater effort towards something....

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I would like some help and support for me on my farm. I like to play/experiment, sexually and otherwise. This 'play', needs mutual understanding and trust because our boundaries vacillate and move. Especially it seems, the deeper we go. We all make mistakes, mistakes are a part of learning, even, at the time, seemingly serious mistakes--though we try to avoid SERIOUS ones of course. People who are fakes, liars and quitters are not my favorite people, though I say they cannot help it and I admit they often seem 'luckier' and less burdened somehow than those of us who have to 'work at it'. But at some point, I believe, we all must try to improve ourselves and I do not think that can accomplished through faking, lying and/or quitting.

I like natural beauty, natural health, and the great outdoors; but I think the bedroom is a very nice place! After having a listing here for a little over a week now and viewing other 'listings', I feel I am definitely reticent about my supposed wants in approach to a sexual and bdsm relationship in comparison with many. Not that I don't want! There are just so many variables and I consider the 'us' to be a most important and interesting factor that emerges...how two people respond to each other in needing, caring, giving and receiving ways. The ups and downs that are inevitable, and the learning/experiencing of a process that hopefully becomes understanding.

Obviously, I like sex and have an interest in bdsm. But mostly what I am looking for is a companion, someone who enjoys being with me. I have a strong disdain for vast segments of modern society and I think most people are physically and mentally 'lazy'--they are sheep in human garb, one might say. Social groupings tend to deteriorate quickly and 'over-trumpet' any real value, producing only these 'sheep' in the end, and so I have little interest in them, other than a bare minimum. I much prefer my socializing to be of a one-to-one type! I called myself a switch, because I had to to be truthful. I would only be a switch with a woman near my age, and/or with a considerable amount of experience, and talent for me. Otherwise, with a younger/inexperienced woman, I would be a Dom. In everyday ordinary life I definitely prefer giving orders than taking them! (I give myself enough orders, I don't need anyone else to....lol)

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