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Male Switch, 32, New York
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Male Dominant, 42, fairfax, Virginia
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Male Submissive, 43, madison, Wisconsin
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About Balancedlife
hello, I am a dominant man who is seeking a relationship that has balance...the balance of love, and dominance... the balance of vanilla, and power exchange... the balance of D/s, with other things in life...I am alpha by nature, but my life includes much more than D/s.
I have been involved in D/s for many years, and am told I am creative, and lead naturally...and to me that is a part of dominance.Leading not ordering... mentoring, not demeaning...inspiring the gift of submission, not demanding it...
I am educated, and what most would call successful... I find intelligence, and education/introspection to be attractive qualities...I do not seek a doormat but a partner... a partner whose views will be heard and accepted...but the final decision will ultimately be mine...I seek someone to communicate with on a variety of levels.Not simply sexually...to me D/s is a relationship and as such, demands communication to flourish... and likewise demands honesty, trust, and mutual enjoyment... without any of the above its doomed to fail... I seek both love, and submission either one or the other will not be enough for me...
I have a variety of vanilla interests, nothing out of the ordinary... I value self discipline, and love to exercise...ethnic dining,the arts, and travel are also among them...
In terms of D/s I love both the physcal and psychological aspects... I love to explore the mind, and learn just how to evoke your submission and deepest fantasies..
I will write more soon but this is a good start to knowing me...
Balancedlife |
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if you think of D/s as primarily sexual... we are probably not a match. If you realize this is about power, and that sex is just one of many forms of power. Then by all means lets talk! |
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back after a long hiatus... |
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"we are such things as dreams are made of"
I am always happy to chat about the lifestyle and more... to explore ourselves and how we discovered this aspect of ourselves...
please do say hi any time |
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