BaDxMommy

contemplating an occasional stranger for my pet. submissive male or female. 35-50. if BD, being used andified appeal to you, let me hear from you.

if youve a history of contacting me 2x every 3 months, dont think i dont notice that its a seasonal whim that will be gone on a breeze.......... or a sticky mess to be wiped away.

"either you do or you dont, either you will or you wont, either you can or you cant, either you is or you aint!" rufus thomas

 I placed ads in the spring hoping to find a particular type of submissive to train. I had immense hope. In an area this size, surely there were many, eager submissives bursting with desire to please a mature, confident, domina. 

I spoke with over 200. Lots of fetishists, married, inexperienced or ashamed of their proclivities. Many had distance or schedules that would make them unavailable to me or they faded out quickly. The majority never made it out the door to meet. 

I met 40.  Most had little or no chemistry. Sometimes on my side, sometimes on theirs. 

I laid hands on 12. the ones I might have enjoyed further were weekend warriors. Wanting playtime on the weekend, after ignoring me all week. (an issue throughout this  project) 

I was intimate with 2. one I regret. The other was intense and amazing and i would do it again even though it burned out way too quickly. ~XxL 

0 wanted this for real in their daily life. Its more of a secret they keep from the rest of the world, indulge it and you become part of the secret.

"Ah yes, the fickle male sensual drive... constantly changing and "evolving", with attention never focused in one place long enough to produce any sort of meaningful experience..."

lo-cal: adjective pertaining to a city, town, or small district rather than an entire state or country.

so to be clear, east bay does not mean berlin, mississippi or sacramento and it doesnt mean san francisco.