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About badgirlday2day
"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, latte in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "WHOHOO, what a ride."
Sorry for the negative that is to follow but in the past week the amount of email and the range of them has prompted this.
Now that being said, i have been in the lifestyle sense i was 19. I have "played" all the rolls and don't really believe in titles. I believe that you are what you are and fitting that into a relationship with someone else is what matters. I know what it is i want and what it is i do not want and i am frank about it. I don't mince words and if you don't want a truthful answer to something then don't ask me the question. I tend to be blunt at times which some see as rude or "bratty" but i tell the truth. I do have a filter though. :) I don't believe in drama, i wont bring mine to you and expect the same in return.
If you live in another state/country your emails will not be responded to. if you are looking for me to be "your one". If you send me an email barking out orders then you will be deleted. Sorry but wanting to be my dom and actually being him are two VERY different things and i have found that there are way to many "privileges" both given and taken in this lifestyle these days. If you read this and think "oh what a bitch" and feel the need to tell me about it then you will be deleted. I'm not (can be at times) i am just telling you how i feel. I'm tired of the games people play and all of the wannabes. If your only goal is to find a one night stand or to cyber then keep going i do neither. If you pass all of my requirements and this progress to the point where a date is in order then do not expect play. I only play with those i know and a few emails and maybe a few phone calls does not qualify.
I am looking for a RL LTR and you should be too. I have been out of the lifestyle for a few years treading water in the vanilla world so who ever i take as my dom will have to be understanding of that and move slowly, carefully and help me on my journey back into this lifestyle. In the past i was known as a "pain slut" (have the pictures to prove it) and would like to get back to parts of that.
I am not interested in being someones play toy, one night stand or being in a poly situation. |
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My recent journey to the woodshed has really sparked an interest in rope for me. It has also made me realize just how much i do want to play again, but in the same thoughts also sparks that fear of playing. Maybe my trust has just been broken to the point of no return? I'm not one to just drop my pants and allow just anyone to do whatever they wish but it seems that most i meet are only interested in that. Why is it that nobody wants to take the time to actually get to know people? Do they not realize that, that make the play (and everything else) so much better? Is my thinking "old school" or are others having the same issues? |
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Pain in its self is only a sensation and it is our attitudes of resistance to it, and fear, which makes it uncomfortable. These attitudes are conditioning and can be released, or simply traded for more fulfilling attitudes. Acceptance and gratitude. Offer it love, instead. |
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