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I'm a woman of integrity and contradiction. A feminist who craves a profoundly unequal relationship. A butch boi who cannot stop blushing.
I'm eager to meet others in the metro DC area for play and/or friendship. I have no interest in cybersex. I do not have the time or emotional energy to build a relationship at this time. At this point in my life I am necessarily focusing on career rather than relationship issues. That means I'm looking for uncomplicated, joyful explorations in which I have the privilege of falling deeply into sub space for a few hours at a time, hopefully allowing you to travel to the head space you want and need, too. After play, we go our separate ways and contact is limited and on an equal footing until/unless we agree to tango again.
I'm a lesbian, and openness to playing with men is new to me. If you lack patience for the ambivalence and hesitation that may surface in me as a result of this, or if you cannot contain your male fantasy of "converting" a lesbian, we are probably not a good match.
As a bottom, I adore restraints, flogging, spanking and scratching. In a brief experience of true submission, I found the constraints of being "in service" in high protocol an unbelievable turn-on, hugely comforting and rewarding. Psychological aspects of power exchange interest me the most, though I closely guard my sanity and safety, so won't go there without first establishing a solid baseline of trust.
I'm less interested in the silhouette or gender identity that a top/dom presents than their ability to dominate me: their facility for creating extraordinary sensations and predicaments, the strength of their forearms, the aim of their whip, the creativity of their mind, the force behind their words. Having said that, I've got a serious weakness for butch dykes and big women (tall, wide, or both).
I have this going for me: solid communication skills, an agile mind, a wicked imagination, a truck load of fantasies, enormous sexual energy, genuine joy at pleasing others, a very responsive body, relationship skills, emotional maturity and the basics of courtesy, honesty and integrity. I'm unmarried and uncollared.
I also have shortcomings, of course. Feel free to ask about these in email.
My submission is meaningful and sexy precisely because it is a choice. I am a powerful person who chooses -- for discrete periods of time and under certain circumstances -- to give my power away. If that sentence rubs you the wrong way, we are probably not a good match.
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