badbamagirl46

I must say I do enjoy the emails from Dominants that state specifically what they are looking for--even if it is taboo or extremely kinky.  Honesty is important and if You can't say it with an email You probably shouldn't be doing it?? Have a good day. ~bbgirl~

I must admit, I get quite a few chuckles on here, maybe that is why I stay??  In this long journey I embarked on, I knew it wouldn't be easy.  I knew I would have a hard time finding a "perfect" Dom.  Honestly, I will not be able to live the lifestyle 24/7.  I have family, I have obligations, I have a job.  I am pretty self sufficient.  Maybe I should stop looking for the ONE and just find someone that likes what I like?  If it turned into a committed relationship I still would not be able to live it 24/7.  I can fall at Your feet whenever we are together, I can wait on You hand and foot, give You pleasure and call You Sir or Master if that is what You desire. 

What I will not do is give my finances over to You.  That happens with a ring on my finger and even then I would expect to have freedom over what I earn.  I will not move in with You after one or two meetings and I may not feel comfortable being alone with You until after several meetings in person.  I would think You would want to get to know me first. 

I also will not put my picture on here--if You are that interested You can wait for another venue to see me.  I get so tired of the emails that say..."Send me a picture of you naked."...Not going to happen. 

I have met some really nice Dominants on here and a lot of losers. 

I am worth getting to know but if You are just interested in a fast hook up--please--keep moving.  Don't waste my time and Yours.  Thanks for stopping by. 

P.S.  I am not concerned with Your looks--I want to know You.  I like larger men but I like all sorts..so..with that said...Bye for now. ~badbamagirl~

I wasn't feeling well so I hid my profile for a bit.  Feel better now. 

Well, the decision didn't come easy, but I seriously don't think I will find success on here.  Bdsm is a complicated lifestyle to say the least.  I have met a few that I think would indeed make an excellent Dom and some that just like the thrill of spanking a willing woman/submissive. 

Example: Dom: I always respect hard limits.

Me:  That is good because I don't enjoy anal.

Dom: Well, I am sure in time you will learn to please Me that way.

Duh?? Isn't saying no and stating it is a hard limit enough to put that discussion under the rug??  I have certain things I will not tolerate and if a Dom isn't willing to respect that then He is not the ONE for me. 

There are some new subs I am sure that enjoy it and will willingly do anything to please and serve.  I guess with what I have been through in the past, I am not one of them. 

Well, those are my thoughts this morning.  Enjoy your day.

I have been feeling a little under the weather a few days now..I think I am just tired.  I find it a most frustrating experience sometimes reading emails.  I have a brain, I can carry on a decent conversation and  you might find a little challenge is a good thing.  I choose to be a submissive--I can leave the lifestyle also if I choose (which I am leaning more and more towards).  It doesn't mean I am not still a submissive, just that I choose not to practice.  With that said...have a good weekend all.  And if you don't like what I am saying, don't bother to write.  Unless I care about you I could care less what you think.

I am overwhelmed at all the emails I receive...some are nice..some bizarre...but all are interesting.  I guess it can't hurt to try right?? I am basically a private person and I don't share everything about me on the first email.  I am thinking alot of Doms must experience a lot of frustration while seeking a sub but I can tell you this--it is just as hard for submissive.  I have never thought of myself as a doormat.  I am woman and I like a few things that some women don't.  I enjoy pampering and doing things for other people.  It is a mistake if you take submission as a weakness.  I can and will quit you in a heartbeat.  I believe in safe, sane and most of all consensual.  For example, I do not enjoy anal..in any form.  If that can't be a hard limit then move on please because I am not going to be guilted into it to "please" you.  That is why they call them "hard limits"...and if you can't find a million other ways to enjoy me then I am not the one for you. 

All I am saying is this--a Dom already knows what He expects, if I don't fit that then don't bother writing.  You are only wasting my time and Yours.

~badbamagirl~