BabyGirlSub7

Female Submissive, 18

Female Submissive, 37, Port Ludlow, Washington

Female Submissive, 30

So today someone asked me what they should do about the feeling she has had recently that she is always letting her Dom down. I asked why she felt she was letting him down and her answer suprised me. She said that she never sees any satisfaction in his eyes. She also said that she feels like she has to ask for scenes and that he stopped initiating them a while ago. That he didn't seem happy with their dynamic. What in the everloving??? What??? The whole premise behind our lifestyle is one gives up control in order to be under the protection of the one who craves that control. Sure as a sub I have asked for sex, initiated funishments, and sometimes even asked to scene during a time when he had none planned. But to HAVE to ask and to feel lile I have not satisfied him based om the fact that he is not takomg control over the dynamic/relationship? What kind of Dom is this? In response I posed this question to her. Are you happy with your Dom? Is your Sir giving you the satisfaction of losing yourself so deeply in him that the darkness swallows you whole and threatens to keep you forever? Does his Dominance speak to you even when he isn't there? Does he take over and control your soul better than you could ever care for yourself? If you can't answer those questions then neither of you have any business playing. There is no communication between the two of you and without it one or both of you will end up hurt. Serious sub drop like that can turn to true depression so fast and you have a Dom who obviously has not taken notice of the fact that you gave him your submission and it is his job to protect it. And he has a sub who has not given him the full control he needs and is to scared to fully let go or discuss it. Sometimes when things get this far we need to stop... Take a step back and as D/s... M/s... Switches, Tops and bottoms talk about what isn't working so that we can focus on what is.

Taking pride in ourselves and our submission is important. Pleasing our Doms is something that allows our mental and physical selves to excel. But our submission isn't something given to just anybody. A Dom who demands obediance or submission from the word "hi" is not a Dom. A man who opens with commands or expectations is dangerous. Submission is given, not expected. Submisiion is accepted not taken. As a sub I have been subjected to those who think that because they are Dominant by nature I am supposed to immediately bow down amd allow them to take from me as they give nothing in return. I have also been subjected to those who feel that because they are tops I am supposed to immediately give them a Sir or a Master. But ladies any man who refuses to get to know you, ask and answer questions, and be vetted is a dangerous man playing at being Dominant and probably learned all he knows from watching 50 Shades of Grey (puke). Negotiate. Vet. Ask questions. Stay safe, sane, and consensual. I love this lifestyle and have spent years learning and growing and polishing my submission. Too much time to just hand it over to someone who won't respect it. I yearn to cater to, worship and adore the Dom who sees me as a gift not a trophy. I love being used in the bedroom, but when the lights come on enjoy having my brain picked. Humiliation is a kink of many... Not my kink, but if he didn't take the time to vet, read a profile, or get to know you then he would think that opening a conversation with " I want to fill your holes" is witty, but understand he will not bother with safe or sane. Ultimately a Doms job is to know and understand his subs needs. A subs job is to ensure her Dom is fulfilled. This goal will only be met on both sides when the parties involved are on one accord. Starting vanilla and working in the kink once it is safe and appropriate will ensure a very satisfying relationship.

One of the first lessons a submissive learns is how to let go. Throughout history women were made to feel like we were less than what men were. So putting yourself in a situation where you're submission can be mistaken for subjugation is hard. Being a submissive can have an emotional toll on a woman. She is looking for protection, control, care, honesty, and security. But it is so much more than that. Submission to me is opening yourself to someone fully. Embracing everything that they want for you and everything that they want to give you and giving so much more in return. It's not only letting someone control you, but also giving them that control. Giving them the power to not only pleasure you but also to hurt you. A Dom is in a position where he can hurt you, however a submissive accepts that despite the control and power he has to bring you harm he never will. Letting go of control is something that we crave. We want to be able to completely focus on our partner to make sure that they're getting everything that they need. Simply laying your head in his lap and being still and quiet and allowing him to meditate and to focus is serving him well because he needs that quiet time to reflect and to focus on you. Even in the middle of a scene when he gets that laser focus look in his eye where every dominant instinct in him is saying to take, to plunder, and to use you. But we know that his focus is on us on bringing us pleasure, on bringing us the pain the we crave, while giving us the discipline that we need whatever it is. Submission is a joy that we feel deep in our soul. Our hearts reach out to it, our minds crave it, our bodies need it. Nothing in this world is better than the feeling that we get when we're kneeling at our Master's side looking up at him as he caresses your face or pets our hair. Understanding that this man and only this man can accept us for who we are and truly give us what we need.

True?Submission She waited?on?her?knees patiently?head down. As?she waited?she focused?on each breath, calmly accepting?what?was?to?come. As?he walked around her?inspecting her body, he accepted her gift. She?thought?about?what?he saw when he looked at her. Head bowed in submission giving herself?to?him.?On?her?knees?humbly?accepting his?dominance, his?control. Her body?relaxed and?trusting?him,?knowing?and accepting that no matter?what came this?night he would protect her.?Is?this?what?he?saw?as?she knelt so calmly?waiting for?what was?to come? Confidently,?he?reached?down and stroked her?head. "You did well kitten. You are ready?for me this?evening?body?and?mind." he said as he slid his finger?under?her?chin and raised her head slowly. "Accept the gift that?I?have?for?you."? She knew what he wanted. She rose up on her knees and?stroked her hands?up slowly?from?his?knee?to?his?belt buckle. As she undid his?pants she eagerly?she stroked his member,?licking?her?lips?as?she thought about his?taste, the heat of his?cock?stroked her lips and slid?past?her?teeth?and down her?throat. He grabbed her?head, fingers?threaded through her hair?and?begin?working?himself in and out of her?mouth. Using her for his?pleasure. He accepted the?gift?of?her?submission. He knew that no matter?how hard he stroked and how deep it went she?would?accept?him?into her?body?because it was?what he wanted. He began to eagerly fuck?her?face as?she?opened up her?throat and allowed him?in. His?taste?an explosion of flavor on her?tongue,?there?was?nothing like it on Earth. The harder?he became the more eagerly?she sucked?running?her?tongue all around what he allowed no other?submissive to have. Secure in the?knowledge?that?even?in this?he belong to her?as?she belong to him. His?dick?became rock hard,?almost?like?a?stone?being shoved down her?throat. Opening wider she began to earnestly attempt?to?drain?him?dry.?She grasped his?balls?and began stroke them as?her mouth lapped up the?delicious?gift?of?his?precum. In that instant his?hands?tightened in her hair pulling almost painfully?at?the?strands?as?he emptied himself into her?mouth and down her throat. Panting?but?still?solid?in?her?hand he stroked her?cheeks?and murmured "Good girl, you're such a good?pet."?She?smiled?up at him, absorbing his?praise. Letting it fill her soul. He reached down he helped?her?to?stand?and?led her?over?to the far?wall of their?dungeon. As?they?reach the wall he picked?up?a?set?of?leather?cuffs?off the side table and turned her?to face the wall. He slipped the cuffs?in?place?just?above?her?elbow and locked them?into place The?soft?skin of her back?drew?him?in, the beauty?of her?submission sent him deeper into his?Dom space.?He reached?down?and slid his?fingers?through her?slit reaching for her opening; seeking the wetness?he?knew?would?be there waiting for?him?to taste. He roughly pushed her forward and he reached above?them?and?grabbed the length of chain that ran through the steel rings?hanging from the bar?that?ran?the?length?of?the room?and down this?side of the wall. Attaching the chain to her cuffs?kept?her?in?her?bowed position. He then stepped back and?he began to stroke himself, his?dick?eager to find?its?home?within?her.?But before he allowed himself that pleasure his?kitten had earned a reward. He dropped?to?his?knees?behind her?he stroked the soft globes?of her?ass. Fondling each beautiful cheek, he?pictured?himself?turning her?ass?cheeks?red. His?face found its home in her warm wet slit. He began to suck?eagerly?at?her?nether?lips. His tongue licked her from?front to back?and back?to front. He sought out?her?opening,?tunneling deep inside her?drawing all of her?wetness?into his?mouth. Drinking in the?nectar?that?no?other?man on Earth would ever?taste, he used his?tongue as?a weapon against?her?clit?stroking?and rubbing it back?and forth. As?he did this?he noticed his?kitten began to?struggle.?Everything?he?did made it harder?and harder?for?her?to remain silent and take what he?was?giving?her.?Knowing she was?to remain quiet and yet allowing him to torture her this?way gave?him?a?sense?of?power?that he felt with no other?woman. His?hands?began massaging their way?up?her?calf?to?her?thighs?pushing her?legs?further?apart he leaned in once again shoving his tongue?into?her?dripping?wet hole. Her?soft pants?were the only?indication she was?holding her orgasm?at?bay.?His?hands?are up higher?reaching the soft swell at the bottom of her cheeks. His fingers?found?their?way?into the wetness?that he was?continuously?drawing from her scooping out as?much?of?it?as?he?could?he began using 2 fingers?to push her?juices?into her back?hole. "Oh,?baby?you?are?such?a good pet. Look?at you trussed up bent over waiting for my?cock. Your body?knows?its?Master.?And it's?Master?is?ready?to take what belongs?to him." Slowly?taking?a?deep?breath she pushed her?ass?back, begging for his?cock. But before he allowed?himself?to?pleasure sliding into her?soft hot pussy?he picked up the small leather paddle waiting?on?the?side?table. He stepped behind her and?he slid his?cock?into her depths slowly?pushing it in and?out?grabbing?as?much of her?cream?as?he could. Pulling out and using her juices?as lubrication?he?began?to?slowly?push into her?ass. As?he slowly?took?her he began using the paddle?to?slap?each?cheek?over?and over?again while fucking the ass?he loved so much. Slap,slap?over?and?over.?In?and out over?and over. She truly?began to struggle with her silence. Try as she might, keeping?her?orgasm?from?breaking over?her?began to feel as?if it were too much to handle. As?he?continued?working?himself in and out of her?body?the paddle became an extension of his touch.?Over?her?ass?cheeks?up and down the small of her?back?down to her thighs?nothing was left?untouched.?A?slow?heat begin to burn from?her?thighs?to her?breasts. The noise of the paddle became?deafening?almost like a roar?of thunder?to her?ears. Faster and faster he began pounding?in?and?out?of?her?until it became too much to keep up with the strokes?of the paddle and?fucking?her?ass.?He?dropped the paddle and grabbed both sides?of her hips?and began pulling?her?back?and?forth?into him?doing his?damnedest to crawl inside of her body. As?his orgasm?begin?to?break?over?his?body?at the top of his?lungs?he screamed "Come for me baby, come?hard?and?come?loud." In?that?instance?the?only?thing that mattered were her?screams; the only?thing he could feel, touch,?and?see?was?the?pleasure he had brought his?little submissive. Supported by his hands on?her hips she felt him he?reach?up?and?unlatch the chain and begin to unlock?and remove the leather cuffs?from her?elbows.?As?he?did?he?massaged each muscle through her?arms?and her back?knowing that she?was?probably?sore?from?being in that position for?so long. He leaned forward and he continued to whisper?in?her?ear?what?a good girl she was?and how wonderful she made him feel. Nothing mattered?more?than?his?submissive and giving her?the care she needed.Sinking?to?the?floor?he?said on a harsh exhale, "Speak?freely, little one. How do you feel?" She looked?up?into?her?Master's?eyes?with such trust and care she spoke from her heart, "Master submitting?to?you?was?both the best decision I have ever?made and the one thing in me that I would never?take?back.?You?made me feel more than anyone in my?life has?ever made me feel. The gift?that?I?give?to?you,?my?submission, is?all I have to offer?but when I look?into your eyes?I feel like it's?enough."

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