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babyfacedassassn - Female Dominant, Christchurch | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About babyfacedassassn

In A Kinky Nutshell...

I am a Sadist, a Top, a pyromaniac, a pain slut, and a service-oriented evil bitch. I tried to be submissive for a while, but as it turns out I’m incredibly bad at it. While I may show deference to those I respect and deeply trust, true submission is just not in my nature. That being said, I do enjoy bottoming to certain incredibly sadistic people and am somewhat of a smart-ass masochist.

If you are wondering what my specific kinks are I will just tell you that I have plenty and discover new ones all the time. What matters to me are the things that really get *you* all hot and bothered. Something that typically rates a ‘meh’ or even an ‘ugh’ for me will likely be upgraded to a ‘yay’ or ‘hoo, boy!’ when I see just how happy it makes you. Yes, I'm weird, and apparently your kink *is* my kink (at least 9 times out of 10).

Generally speaking:

As a Top, I enjoy exploring the limits of pain, seeing just how far you will go to make me happy, and amusing myself by doing tiny evil things to make your everyday life more interesting. In the end you will thank me. In spite of all the cruel little things I may do, I honestly care that you are happy and taken care of and it is not uncommon for me to push you farther than you’ve ever been gone before then turn around and dote on you hand and foot.

As a masochist, I have a penchant for brutal beatings and deep, heavy pain that lasts for days (or weeks). Break out your hammers, baseball bats, giant floggers, SAP gloves, combat boots, and steel pipes and take me for a ride… I’ll laugh the whole time and odds are you’ll crap out before I do. In fact, you might want to bring a friend.

What I am looking for:

* A service Top / Sadist (or two)
* Predicament blade bondage models
* A submissive / bottom / slave
* Kinkalicious friends
* Drawing models
* Kinky crafting buddies and / or other artsy friends

A little more about me, my beliefs, and things I just won’t stand for:

When I first meet you I am likely to appear rather shy. This isn’t the case, really, but I am generally quiet and reserved (especially in social settings), though the opposite is true behind closed doors. Anyway, I would much rather sit back and listen to you talk for a while. I am terrible with small talk and, until I get to know you, will rarely say anything unless it seems important. I am also a big fan of the truth, even if it hurts, so you probably shouldn’t ask me a question for which you don’t want an entirely honest answer. Consider yourself warned.

I have a polyamorous mindset, even when not in a poly relationship and we will not do well together if you are the jealous type (or rather the type that refuses to discuss and work to resolve any issues regarding jealousy).

I believe in treating people with honesty, respect, and consideration. If you can’t return the favor or think you can treat me like less than I am, you won’t be in my life for long. I have far too much self-respect for that.

I wholeheartedly believe in radical acceptance and unconditional love (romantic or otherwise). I make my own opinions and will not be swayed by those of others, though I may change my mind through direct observation. Leave me out of your squabbles and petty gossip… all it is going to do is make me think less of you. This is not to say that I won’t listen and talk through any real issues you might have with another party (though I will not pass judgment on them).

In most settings I do not care for random, one-time play. I enjoy having a connection with my partners, be it casual friendship, extreme emotional connection, or anything and everything in between.

While I am always open to finding new play partners, I am rather selective (especially when approached online). If you come off as a creeper, a stalker, or an uneducated fool that believes the letter ‘u’ is an acceptable substitute for ‘you’, odds are you will never hear back from me. If I’m going to play with you, you need to bring something to the table and if you can’t write a proper, unique message that shows your interest in *me* and not my identification, then I doubt you will have anything of interest to add to our dynamic. I also do not add people as friends that I have not met in person.

Quirks (of which I have many):

I hate phones. I HATE them. If I am willing to call you, I must find you very interesting indeed.

Now, since most, if not all, of our conversation will take place online (especially while we get to know one another), I should tell you that I find the typed expression ‘hehehe…’ to be completely and utterly creepy. Should you go that route I will undoubtedly begin to picture you as a homicidal pervert snickering at me from behind some nearby bushes. Hopefully this is not what you are going for, so I will add that ‘hahaha’ and the ever appreciated maniacal version (‘Mwahahaha’) are the way to go. ‘LOL’ works, or course, but I do love me a good onomatopoeia.

I eat sandwiches (or anything square or round) in a continuous counterclockwise circle. Deal with it.

One of my greatest desires is to pet a sloth, though I have yet to find someone who will let me. If you have one hanging about that you are willing to let me manhandle for a while I will do my best to return the favor by being your own personal djinn.

I may nerdgasm on you… frequently… without cause or warning. I suppose it is just another thing that you’ll learn to love about me.

Other points of interest and possible topics of conversation should you have the desire to start one:

Science – If you can make (intelligent) science jokes with me or carry on some wickedly witty geology-based banter, it will put you way ahead of the crowd. I’m just sayin’.

Travel – I’ve been around a time or two and if you have travelled the world as well, I’m sure we will have endless stories to share.

Hiking/camping – I do it. I love it. I’ve even been known to give a tour or two.

Movies – I’ve seen them. Maybe you have too…

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