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I have "played" in BDSM for many years on and off. I left a few years ago because of the fake doms and fake subs out there. I am a simple person who likes to experience everything life has to offer. I travel around NYS for my job. I enjoy being submissive, and would also like to learn dominance.
The dominant I am looking for is open, however the deal breaking nots are
he is not mean, or huge into humiliation. While I can tolerate it for a dominants enjoyment, it is not a turn on for me to be called a cunt, bitch whore...
I like strong men who dont have to ask me to make a decision. You cannot be dominant if you are looking to me to make choices about everything.
I love to offer submission, I also like it to be taken---------------ONCE TRUST IS ESTABLISHED @@@@@ which will not happen the first couple of times we talk or the first time we meet.
I am a big girl.. so smaller men it is tough to dominate me... I love to be physically overpowered as well as tied, flogged, paddled, played with and .. psychologically challenged.
The old expression of if you cant get my mind you will never have my body applies to me. If we have nothing in common but sex/bdsm then I will be bored with suck / fuck pull my hair scenarios in one session...
I will not suck your cock or fuck you the first time we meet... that is just a rule to keep me sane, and I always live by it. I am not into being someones dirty little secret I want someone who wants to play with me as much I want to play with them.
Respect is earned- give it and you will get it
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