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Male Submissive, 42, London
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Male Dominant, 45, Cambridge
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Male Dominant, 56, SE
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About b1ackr05e
Pottering between the desks in my office, I look my fellow wage-slaves and find myself wondering...are they actually kindred spirits? Normal on the outside (well, normal-ish) but on the inside harbouring a little demon - a treasured, loveable demon who can’t be quietened nor boxed up and shunted aside. It doesn’t seem very probable…but the alternative seems even more implausible: going home to their vanilla partners to have safe vanilla sex and being still content, not yearning for something more, something darker, edgier, less predictable... how do they do it?? I couldn’t, and don’t. (If I'm completely honest, there are days I wish I could. Life would be so much simpler... but I don’t see this side of me as a character flaw. I’m not the problem here.) I could put an advert up on a vanilla dating site and hope that somebody picks up on the kinky nuances or the quiet knowing in my eyes in my oh-so-polite profile pictures... Hoping to find the yin to my yang... Or I could put it all out there on an adult or fetish site, hoping for somebody who can see the real me – but that means all of me, not just the sub.
So...what am I looking for - and what am I looking for *here*? Surprise! I'd really like all the normal stuff...mutual adoration, stability (AND excitement too), being made to feel needed and supporting my partner… who for his part will be confident in who he is, not falter in stating the things he needs and wants from/with me, and be comfortable talking openly about anything either of us is thinking or feeling, without fearing the consequences. In an ideal world, he'll also be kinky, dominant, clever, confident, sane... at ease with his sexuality, experienced enough to know what he wants but still keen to push boundaries (his own and mine) and without preconceived ideas about how, where and in what settings this will occur. Is this paragon on Collarme? Who knows... I know it's a lot to ask for, but I'd rather be single for the right reasons than in any relationship for the wrong ones.
I am very broadminded but checklists of sexual preferences aren't my thing: personal connection is. I'm not really interested in one-offs, I would much prefer something with some legs. Without wanting to sound smug, I'd venture that I'm probably not quite like anybody you've met before. Intelligence coupled with a sense of humour are two essential ingredients and will stand you in good stead for being able to handle me.
Disclaimer: (I'm sorry about this... But experience dictates it's necessary!)
Please DO NOT CONTACT ME if:
- ***YOU ARE MARRIED/ATTACHED/IN A RELATIONSHIP OF ANY SORT*** - you are outside of my desired age range (30-50) - live further than 25 miles from London- if you are obese, uneducated and most importantly of all, if you don't know how to spell...
Please include pictures in your reply, and I’d rather see your face than your cock (though I know how fond you are of it). |
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