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Hetero Male Dominant, 52,  Arizona
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 Dominant Male


 5' 11"

 210 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Online Romance

A Poly Household

 Lives For:



 Beachcombing (Expert)

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Museums (Expert)



 Walking (Expert)

 Weightlifting (Expert)



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Foot Worship (Expert)


 Masks (On Partner)

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Control

 Sensory Deprivation

 Speech Restrictions



 Libertarian Politics

 Heavy Metal Music

 Rock Music

 Christianity (Expert)

 Body Building



 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries (Expert)

 Coffee Shops





 Plastic Wrap

 Wax play

 Card Games

 Science Fiction

 Web Surfing



 Conservative Politics



 Seventies Music





 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales


 Arcade Games




 Liberal Politics

 Hard Limits:



 Female Supremacy

I have been dominant for my entire adult life. Although I have had many vanilla relationships in the past, they all eventually turn to Ds. I feel there is nothing more important than being polite to each other. In the beginning at least... Dont let the name dissuade you by its rather inocous manner. I am called Daddy because I am a father many times over.That does not mean I am sweet and gentle. To the contrary many a slave throughout my past can attest to the mental and physical Rigorous training I have put them through. None have ever walked away unhappy with the way they turned out.

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Journal Entries:
1/23/2018 8:45:21 PM
If I were to pick one thing that I miss from moving from a busy metropolis to a small town is the bonhomie I had with so many people.

1/19/2018 8:50:26 AM
Once again I am a ghost in the machine.

12/21/2017 9:14:39 AM
Just love the idiosyncrasy's of this site. I guess no messages for me for a while.

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12/6/2017 9:26:10 PM
Let me make this very clear. Don't ask me for money. Not now. Not ever. I don't need your moldy pun tang. Go waste your time prostituting yourself to someone that is desperate. Even if I never got any boot nockin again for the rest of my life I would never be interested in paying for skanky disease infested twat. Never.

11/27/2017 3:05:07 PM

Definitely me.

11/15/2017 8:44:13 PM
Deus belli

11/6/2017 10:24:36 PM
Tonight my heart weeps for the people of Sutherland Springs , Texas. Fortunately there was a good guy with a gun to stop the bad guy with a gun before he could do more harm. All that loss of life, All those children injured and killed. Why do I carry everywhere I go? I wonder....

10/17/2017 9:09:09 PM
Only 1 breakfast to make. Laundry for 1 Only 1 dinner to make. An empty unused house to clean. No more driving to pick up at school. No orthodontist apts. No need to get up so someone can be on time for the bus. No more driving practice. Lonely is such an inadequate word to describe how I feel.

10/2/2017 6:32:02 AM
Over 400 people injured. Today is a very sad day. My heart goes out to the people of Las Vegas this morning.

9/25/2017 4:43:47 PM
Once again CS is a complete cock-up. Every button that can be is red but nothing comes of it.

9/24/2017 5:47:16 PM
There is so much distrust here. So many assume the worst of everyone they interact with. It is becoming impossible to have even a short conversation. Very frustrating...

8/22/2017 7:50:54 AM
To defeat your enemy you must know your enemy. To truly know your enemy you must love your enemy as you love yourself. Here in lies the real pain of victory over your enemy.

8/12/2017 4:50:12 PM

7/27/2017 3:26:33 PM
On a whim I thought I'd check out female dominants here. No idea why as for the most part I get a strong urge to puke when I see a woman acting that way but I did it anyway. Low and behold 3 pages of hookers and so called findomes. That figures. I swear CS should be charging a cut from these whores.

7/25/2017 9:51:30 PM
And CS crashes again.

7/23/2017 2:51:36 PM
WTF... Why is it so many on here bail after one or two messages?

7/21/2017 7:53:56 PM
I'm so tired of all the bs. Can anyone tell the truth anymore?

7/9/2017 7:54:48 AM
Rain... No rain. These monsoons are so fickle.

5/29/2017 5:27:24 AM
Memorial Day... Please keep in mind the purpose of Memorial Day. Today we remember the fallen hero's that gave their lives so that we can be free. That number is over 600,000 since World War One. If you encounter a veteran today it is inappropriate to say,"Happy Memorial Day." To them there is nothing happy about the loss of their battle buddies.

5/27/2017 1:53:57 PM
Gay fobin on the avascava side.

12/21/2016 8:40:22 AM
Merry Christmas. Gonna spend time with family and friends. Stay safe everyone. I'll see all you crazy kinksters next year.

12/12/2016 7:54:03 PM
I swear it seems some days as if less than 10% of my messages are getting through.

12/9/2016 5:46:48 AM
Have you ever felt that, despite all your efforts to communicate, no one really gets you?

10/6/2016 10:41:08 PM
Phew... Week after week you sweat and toil to develop the characters. For months on end you go over the plot and all its intricacies to be sure its not only cohesive but engaging. Finally you come to the point that the little kernel of an idea from so many months ago has grown into your latest and greatest. Hopefully the fans will appreciate all the work involved.

10/2/2016 7:58:56 PM
I am the ghost that haunts this server. I am the specter that appears just outside your vision. Ever elusive. Never tiring. Always hunting. Never satiated.

8/27/2016 6:24:32 PM
Finally... Summer is winding down. What a beautiful day today. I can't wait till the harvest moon this year.

8/17/2016 9:53:12 PM
I feel I am a ghost in the machine.

7/22/2016 7:59:34 PM
Ok... What the hell is going on here at CS? The last three nights I am assaulted by pictures of little girls in disgusting poses. These so called girls state right in their profile they are way under 18. I swear it made me want to tear my eyes out when I saw that. Tonight some so called submissive woman only wants to talk about how she enjoys watching her little girl get molested. Let me be clear. I don't care what your kink is as long as it's between 2 consenting human adults. Anything else is illegal and disgusting. I have and will report you too the authorities. I hope you rot in jail being raped by some big toothless greasy black man until you die. Further if I can track you down myself I will end you quickly and with great prejudice.

7/12/2016 9:59:26 PM
Thought maybe I'd put this closer to the top. I spent hours talking to a woman this week just to have her say, " You carry a gun? I can't be around anyone that is so reckless." I politely told her that it was in my profile and good luck with her search. After some consideration I decided maybe it was too much to expect someone to read all the way through my journal posts. Therefore let me make it clear and up front. Yes I carry a weapon. No that doesn't mean I am some kind of wacko. When you've walked in my shoes then maybe you can understand my motivation for my actions. Until such time don't be an ass.

7/11/2016 8:55:37 PM
Blah blah blah... Some times this can get so tedious...

7/7/2016 10:47:41 PM
Tonight my thoughts and  prayers are with the police that lost their lives and the wounded officers in Texas.

10/8/2015 5:11:47 PM
Today I realized something very significant. After spending the day interacting with many different people it hit me. I couldn't care less about almost all of the people I spend time with on a daily bassis. Am I broken? Maybe but I know I will never be able to "make a connection " with others. It just isn't worth the effort.

1/22/2014 9:38:49 PM
A great way to start a new year... Got a check today from my publisher for my book. Second book is almost finished editing. 2 new tablets ordered and a new Cell Phone on its way. The "Back 40" is all tilled and ready for planting and the new sit down mower has been very helpful in grading the land around the house. Like I said... A great way to start the year.

12/8/2013 7:09:24 AM

Kia Kaha!

9/24/2013 9:02:31 PM
Dedicated to my departed subbie on this the week of the anniversary of our union. It's been years since your passing but I still think of you daily.

7/25/2013 12:21:28 AM
This being the anniversary week of the birthday of my departed subbie I dedicate this song. My love for you will never end. Rest in peace lover. I will be with you again some day.

6/24/2013 9:24:18 PM
Can anyone tell me why so many women on this site think they need to push their junk in my face. Let me just be real frank here. Your naked pussy all up in my face is disgusting. You may think what you have is special but trust me it isn't any better looking then the next one. If you truely want to impress... Show how you can be submissive. Now that is sexy.

11/6/2012 9:19:21 PM
Today is the saddest day for our country since its inception. Our civil liberties will be diminished exponentially for the next four years. Lincoln warned that our undoing would come from within. He was right.

7/30/2012 11:48:55 PM
To my departed subbie. This dedication shows how I feel after all these years. I sometimes wonder if anyone will ever understand the connection we shared.

7/13/2012 10:48:14 PM
Okay web design 101. Do not put dark colors in the background of an area with text. Most browsers will not pick up the text (especially if the text is any color at all). All you achieve is a profile that is black. Just my thoughts for the night after seeing so many profiles completely devoid of text on my iPad.

7/2/2012 12:11:17 AM

Well my son Graduated from Boot this week. He comes home and the first thing he tells me is they are going to be shipping him out to Afganistan very soon. .... Not sure how I feel about this. Guess I hoped he would be able to spend some time at home before he goes all the way across the world.

3/14/2012 9:41:51 AM

Well as I come up on the aniversary of the last day I got to spend with my beautiful wife I think back over our time together and get a warm feeling all over. Sweety I am doing what I promised you I would. Phillip  is off to Basic Training today so one step closer to our goals. The song I have picked out for you says a lot about how my heart is doing today. We all miss you greatly. watch?v=M34PEJFk500&feature=rel ated

1/22/2012 12:05:45 AM
A quick note on my thoughts about cameras and verification. Although I realize there are quite a few "camera hounds" here and that they actively pursue collecting pictures of pretty (and nasty) people. That doesn't change the fact that it is necessary. There are way too many flakes here. I know from first hand experience. Unfortunately I have come across a few strange men that like to pose as women and get their rocks off. I have also bumped into more than a few "women" that turned out to be ... Well shall we say less than mature. A camera fixes all of that with just one click. Now please don't tell me you don't have a camera. Or that the camera you used to post your profile picture just broke yesterday. I was born at night, just not last night. All this to say if you don't have a camera get one. They are fairly cheep and they will help ease the tension caused by meeting all these people online... Just my thoughts. I could be wrong..... Well

12/14/2011 11:45:20 PM
So my son swears in for the Army on Monday.... HOOAH!

10/4/2011 11:00:07 PM
Ran into this quiz tonight. Sadist 93% Dominant 86% Experimental 50% Switch 36% Bondage 29% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 29% Degradation Lover 25% Masochist 14% Vanilla 14% Submissive 01% hmmm.... Mostly right I think. Although I am not a Masochistic...

9/21/2011 2:34:21 PM


Tomorrow is our 21st anniversary. Ya know honey I miss you as much today as that day I sat and held your hand as I watched life ebb from your eyes and felt your soul rush through me on it's way to heaven.

9/17/2011 11:05:09 PM

I came across this and I resonate with it. Please don't bother telling me how stupid I am or that Guns are a bad thing. I really don't care how you feel about it.


Author unknown:

Personally, I think Gun Control means having to use both hands! Bada Bing! No seriously, How many gun control advocates does it take to screw in a light bulb? None - Let the police do it, private citizens can't be trusted with light bulbs!


7/24/2011 1:37:16 AM
Okay someone help me understand. You put pictures on your profile, some very revealing. These pictures are designed to lure others to your profile. Then in your profile you complain about all the perves viewing you and sending disgusting e-mails. Whom are we kidding? Just my thoughts.

7/22/2011 11:30:31 PM
So everyone across the country has been complaining about the weather. Triple digit weather? Really? We have that every year. What's the big deal?

5/6/2011 10:48:01 PM
Okay... So what is up with all the dominant women viewing my profile all of the sudden? The least you all could do is drop me a line. Or are you a bit intimidated? Ha Ha Ha....

5/3/2011 10:29:17 PM
Random thoughts on a random day: Just because I carry a gun doesn't mean I'll use it on you. Dead is dead. You can't squeez even one nanosecond into your life. A dear friend told me today "My neighbors don't hate me. They fear me." that explains why I have so much left over Halloween candy each year. It's not that I'm ignoring you. I just didn't notice you were talking. Is there really any other color worth having in a car then red?

3/29/2011 7:26:56 PM
60 Minutes cardio. 60 Minutes upper body free weights. All zone 3. Man that's almost as good as sex. Well almost... I think I touched the face of God. Lol

3/11/2011 8:55:53 PM

Dedicated to my subbie..... Honey I will always miss you....



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2/21/2011 5:18:23 PM

Thinking maybe a bit of clarificationis needed here.

When I say four hours of sex I mean just that. Not four hours of forplay. Not four hours of messing around. Four hours of knocking boots, banging bones, breaking the four poster. For those of you from Realto that means intercourse. Wow. I can't believe the number of people on here that have commented on this. I made the original statement out of frustration with a much younger subbie I had. She commented that she was hesitant to continue with me as I exhausted her and made it hard for her to work the rest of the week. I don't get what the big deal is with going at it all day long if you have the time and inclination..

Well that's just how I feel anyway.

1/10/2011 4:17:59 PM

People come on now. Four hours of Sex is not a long time. Four days maybe but four hours is just getting started..

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